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Should I kill myself?
I have no real world friends except one really, I failed my exams completely come from a pretty poor background and I was abused mentally years ago but that was sorted out but the effects are still there what do I do? I have OCD and aspergers, severe social anxiety, depression and I am dependant on my parents too I feel useless.
I do nothing but play videogames and don't want to either as it's all I've known, I also have anger issues and get jealous of people too easily.
9 Answers
- Just BeLv 47 years agoFavorite Answer
Nothing you have said about yourself is who you truly are. All your descriptions are some kind of form identity or another. They are not the essence of the real you. You are a spiritual being having a human experience, not the other way around. All the adverse conditions you've experienced are temporary. They all will pass. The sooner you accept what is the sooner you will be at peace and the sooner you can get on with living.
- Anonymous7 years ago
No Please dont, it will get better :) talk to someone, get some help and support. There's nothing worse than feeling down. Please dont kill yourself think how hurt your parents would be. Find some new things that you enjoy. Go to town with friends. Try and get support from people :)
- 7 years ago
That's why you need Jesus.
Source(s): www.emmanuel.tv www.scoan.org http://www.youtube.com/user/scoanvideos/videos - Anonymous7 years ago
No, please don't kill yourself. Just don't take this as mean but:
Who cares if you fail your exams? You can still get a well-paid job
Abused and with mental disorders? As soon as you can get some money, get some therapy sessions.
Social anxiety? Try meditation and hypnotism, it can be really calming, you can find videos on YouTube. Also make sure you get enough sleep, exercise, and eat healthy.
Feel useless? Well, you just used yourself to post this question, you can't be that bad.
'Nothing but play video games'? When you get some money, start a channel on YouTube.
You'll be okay, there's always light at the end of the tunnel. I went through really bad suicidal thoughts last year, I tried to strangle myself multiple times to kill myself, my parents don't know, and they will never know, but try to tell your parents, they might help and pay for therapy.
If you need anything, just shoot me a message or whatever:P
- Anxilou
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- LANLv 77 years ago
You should start trying to change the things about you that you don't like. You want friends? Put up the video games and go out and meet people. Look up your city calendar and see if there any events going on that interest you. Spend more time studying rather than ignoring your course work. All your problems are you own bad decisions start changing your bad habits for good ones.
- 7 years ago
There is a link between OCD and suicide did you know that? I have OCD. I was also mentally abused, controlled and manipulated, I was raised in a cult.
And you know what? The effects never go away, the abuse colors your adult life in every way.
You should not kill yourself. Get medication for the OCD. There are also workbooks you can buy for it.
At the bookstore Self Help section.
I don't have any friends, I do not work, I depend on others too and instead of playing video games all day guess what I do? Get on here and answer questions all day LOL. I figure if I cannot help myself I can help others.
DO not worry about grades or exams. These days those aren't really important anymore. You can still get a career. There are many ways. I know someone who never reached 3 rd grade who is now a tech and makes $20-$30 and hour.
All u have to worry about is passing the RIGHT exams for what u wanna do.
Trust me this is not as important as u think and if it is then guess what?
Take a break, get some counseling and meds, get some self help books and when you feel better study up and retake the exams. OK? Even if it takes a year or two. So what. You have to take care of yourself. As long as you eventually complete your goals. there is no tick tock croc like in Peter Pan gonna get you (unless your Captain Hook)
- 7 years ago
No matter how bad things may seem, that's never a reason to kill yourself. The most selfish thing to do is leave this world just because you can't take it. Think about your parents and family and what they would go through if you left them. Keep your head up. Things will get better. Think of the bible verse Jeremiah 29:11, "For I know the plans I have for you, declares The Lord, plans to prosper you and not harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." In this rough time you are going through, turn to God to help you through, he will get you through this.
- 28AKOLv 57 years ago
No! First thing get a part time job, don't give up on school, stop playing video games. Sitting around the house gets u nowhere, try doing the lawn for your parents, go to the library develope some studying skills so u can pass your exams.
If u still having issues that's affecting you from childhood talk to a counselor about it, to relieve the grief! Pray and also ask God for guidance, God specializes in things. Thought impossible...
- 7 years ago
You shouldn't Kill yourself. Its okay to feel useless and its okay to depend on people.
I don't want to sound mushy...And I can't say that I exactly know what you're going through. But you'll find a purpose live in the future so don't end it before that happens. Grades aren't everything, you could work harder and improve them, but there are career choices out there that don't need an good math mark or something.
I'm not sure what to say about being abused but... Ouch. Sorry I should be more serious but ummm...Friends are hard to find...And I didn't realise that I wasn't that close to certain friends myself...But as you start to talk to people more I know you'll find a true friend.
Whats wrong with playing video games all day? Everyone does that (and trust me...I know.)
But hey, don't waste your life, you've only got one. No matter how toigh life gets, don't let death stop you from seeing the happy future that lies ahead.