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Just Be asked in Family & RelationshipsFriends · 7 years ago

Have you given up looking for a mate?

I've been online dating for several years without establishing a long-term relationship. I'm considering giving up online dating and handing my social life over to God/Higher Power/Universe/whatever you want to call It.

Perhaps I've just been trying too hard. I'm quite introverted and I dislike the bar scene. Perhaps I should have relied on God in the first place.

Have you had a similar experience? When it comes to finding a mate what has worked/not worked for you?

Thank you for your response

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  • 7 years ago

    Always remember and never forget that you never find by looking those things that are discovered by not seeking. If you just want some action and get laid join the Baptist Church choir.

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    Im 21 male. Never felt interested in talking or looking to girls. Im just leaving it to chance.

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    Are you a guy or a girl?

    You'll never get anywhere with online dating.

    Just socialize and network you'll find someone.

    You don't want a bar girl anyways, they're not the best GF material.

    Go to church, join a sport, be more social at work, join a club, go to group races/training sessions, talk to people on FB.

    The most important thing you cannot look over, is to FLIRT WITH PEOPLE.

    Seriously if you don't do things that make you uncomfortable you won't get anywhere.

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