Am I being over dramatic?

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My fiance and I just moved into our apartment a about two months ago. He recently got his friend a job in the town that we live in. His friend lives and hour away and has stayed at our house four times.

I feel like ok, my fiance got you a job now it's up to you to get an apartment. Not up to my fiance to house you and feed you.

The whole reason we got this apartment was to have our own space and now his friend is intruding and my fiance doesn't understand why I get so mad. His friend only stays one night a week but still.

Delores Sanbourne · Accepted Answer

Not really, this is a time for you to see whether or not you can live together, and this clown is intruding.  Tell your bf to tell him to get out.

abhi_jit45 · Answer

well..maybe u r right to some extent.But yes...you are being over dramatic.You need to sit with your BF and explain him that you two need space.Instead you are ruining your relationship.

Za&#39;KiyYah · Answer

Sorry the boyfriend want to get rid of you so soon you will be visiting 1 night only. lolWhere is your backbone
This is what marriage is going to be like several friends as the house get bigger. Decide if you want to walk or run away.

? · Answer

The friend is intruding, but there's no need to be dramatic about it.  It's for only one night a week.  If you tell your fiance you don't like it, do it in a nice way.  Maybe tell him that you wish Bob wasn't here tonight, so we could have really noisy sex.  Then, the next night, get your freak on, and rock your fiance's world, so he knows what you mean.  But if you turn into the complaining girlfriend, you may also turn into his ex-fiance.

Anonymous · Answer

Well perrhaps for just 1 night in 7, but yes he should be getting his own place and not freeloading.

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