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how much of a turnoff is a 19 year old virgin guy?
In my other question I talked about how I'm dating a girl and things are dying because I told her the truth, that I've never had sex. I'm 19 years old, obviously a guy and this is not the first time this has happened. On multiple occasions girls are down to have sex with me, for who I truely am but as soon as I say I am a virgin they lose interest so quickly. So I'm sick and tired of this happening, it's like getting a job, to get a job you need experience and to get experience you need a job so I'm done with this bs from now on I am lying to girls about this because I don't have a choice.
How do I go about this? From now on I am going to say I've slept with one other girl and it's been a couple of months, is that a better response?
5 Answers
- ?Lv 67 years ago
How long were you dating?
Why even be discussing it?
How did it even come up?
If she asked you that, and wasn't concentrating on just getting to know you as a person, going on dates, etc., maybe she's not worth it.
- 7 years ago
It's not a turnoff, and you should wait for someone that respects you for who you are and wait until you feel comfortable enougj to do it with someone. It will make if more enjoyable and heartfeot knowing you haven't lied about it. :)
- Anonymous7 years ago
personally this is not a turn off for me,if anything It would make me feel more comfortable around you knowing you don't just have sex with girls then leave them like most men/boys and It will gain you respect from girls,if these girls don't like that you haven't had sex before maybe they are just thinking your not experienced so they may prefer someone more experienced,if you think anything serious could happen with one of the girls you meet don't tell them you've had sex with one person before if you haven't cause chances are they will find out,you just have to wait for the right girl I say,but if you just want to do it to say you've done it,tell the lie maybe
- Anonymous7 years ago
I don't think it even is a turn off.
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- 7 years ago
I think you should just be honest if you lie then the girl is not really liking you for you eventually you will find a girl who doesn't give a shittt if you're a virgin i don't understand why girls care about that anyway you don't have to worry about std's and shittt all the girls who quit talking to you cause you're a virgin are dumb and don't deserve you anyway.