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I've really liked one of my guy friends for over a year, and finally am going to tell him how I feel on Sunday. I'm super shy so I'm kinda freaking out. I'm thinking of saying something like "I don't want to ruin our friendship, but I really like you, and have for a long time. I don't want to make things awkward, and want to remain friends either way." What do I do if he says he doesn't return the feelings? I'm afraid it'll be awkward if he doesn't like me and knows I do. Or what do I do if he does like me? Any help is appreciated! I'm really nervous!

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Let me also say I'm 17, and he'd be my first boyfriend, and we are both super shy. I'm shy and nervous because I have really bad social anxiety.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Your guess is as good as mine, I'm in the same shoes. I thought me and a female friend of mine were just friends but now she's done some things that have made me think that she's interested in being more. I just recently realized that I really like her. She's such an awesome person though and I don't want to lose a good friend over it so I'm just as scared to ask as you are. I'm not sure but I think I might try to find out what her feelings are this weekend. My advice, if you do ask him, try to remain calm and positive no matter what the answer is. I think that if it's a negative answer and you act disappointed then it might make it awkward. So if it's not the answer that you're looking for then try to just brush it off like it wasn't a big deal in the first place. I hope I helped. Let us know how it goes!

game_freakish · Answer

Miss 10 year from now you wouldn't care who the hell is he if he not your husband

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