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Am I too clingy or is my boyfriend too careless?
So me and my boyfriend have been in a relationship for 6 months. He's a great guy and I never met someone like him, but he's too careless, I don't think he needs me as much as I need him, he loves me a lot I don't doubt that, but he doesn't think we should see each other or talk that much, we see each other around 1-2 times a week, I'm ok with that, but what's bothering me is we don't talk a lot, we spend less than half an hour on the phone throughout the day, I'm not a girl who likes to talk a lot but I still think this is not enough, I've told him many times to call me in the morning because I love to hear his voice in the beginning of the day just for a minute, but he does that less than third of the days, he claims he gets busy with his family but nevertheless he spends time on facebook or whatsapp, and all I'm asking from him is a minute! And everytime I ask him why he didn't call he says you shouldn't ask that from people, when he wants to or can call, he calls, and that I make too much drama out of it! I know he's not as busy as he claims and these attitudes make me feel unloved. I mean I'm a great girlfriend, I'm a high value girl, I got many guys chasing after me, I don't ask for too much and I'm very easy going. He appreciates me a lot, but I get insecure and even cry when he doesn't do that little thing I'm asking him which is check on me for a minute in the morning and keep me updated throughout the day. Other than that everything is perfect, am I too clingy? Help
4 Answers
- MMLv 77 years agoFavorite Answer
You might not be too clingy for someone else, but I'd personally get annoyed with a partner who got upset because I didn't provide "updates" when I didn't feel anything was going on that was worth sharing with them, or needed regular reassurance I was thinking about them when they really shouldn't be with me if they didn't already know that. You've told him how you feel, and he's made it pretty clear he doesn't see this as a problem or want to change. So if you're this unhappy, and you've got other options, then maybe you should let him go find someone who needs less contact throughout the day and go explore what else is out there.
- Anonymous7 years ago
That's not enough at all I'm a guy and I think that's bs it seems to me like hehe's not taking the relationship seriously he probly don't want anything serous but don't wanna let you go bet he's conflicted test him
- Sur La MerLv 77 years ago
"he doesn't think we should see each other or talk that much"
In other words, you're not for him!
Right now, he's ONLY SHOPPING. Yeah, he's your BF, but BF/GF are always together, joint to the hips, until they're married & divorced!
Source(s): How I know? Married 40 years in June. - Anonymous7 years ago
If he's a rude, selfish, hypocritical, inconsiderate, condescending, stuck-up bad boy, dump him or reject him and tell other girls to avoid him!