should I leave him?

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told my bf of 3 years I was pregnant initially he freaked said he wasn't ready and didn't have the money... then that night he took me out said he was sorry had a cute date at the beach, he stayed over rubbed my belly... that was Thursday I haven't seen him since just a couple texts everyday and today he was off and went to his guy friend( who sexually harrassed me a couple weeks ago) to see his new place I said goodnight then he texted later he was goig to the bar and he hoped he didn't wake me up w that text... I'm so sad does he not want to be with me now?

Henrich · Answer

Well.

If you have been together for 3 years and you are having a baby, ( it doesnt seem you live together? ) Maybe its time to do that.

He probably only need alitlle time for himself now, and with his friends. Just leave him for himself and his friends for a couple of days to let things cool down. Don´t leave him, that would just be stupid..

? · Answer

i think he still does love you 
its just hes not sure what to do right now
since hes not ready for the baby
i know it might seem like a hard choice but i suggest abortion
there are people against abortions but i believe that it is better for the kid and better for the parents
none of you guys are ready for a baby right now
good luck :)
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Anonymous · Answer

He's probably scared and not ready at this time. He can't throw 3 years away just like that. He's just scared and doesn't know what to do in this situation. Best thing to do is just talk. Don't text.. you should see each other in person or call on the phone. Just talk to him and let him know that he has a responsibility to take care of.. but don't start any kind of argument. It will set him off for good.

Hope I helped.. good luck!

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