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my ex who broke up with me is upset with his best friend and no longer going to be friends with him bc he started talking to me/ flirt with me. im confused i wasn't going to do anything w his friend out of respect for him and me needing space to heal. i don't understand why he's upset if he doesn't care about me anymore ?

we've been together for 3 years but most of our relationship is texting and I can't deal with it anymore he's 26 years old I want to talk on the phone and hang out more then just once a week. how do I get this across? I keep telling him and he just keeps texting me and only being free once a week he's started communicating better but it's just texts saying he's doing this with the guys

we have been dating for 3 years, we only hang out once a week if we r lucky. I just found out I was pregnant and told him 5 days ago and he's only texted since we hug out that night so it looks like he's only hanging out with me once a week still... I feel so alone.. I got upset tonight and told him I'll leave him alone he doesn't have to feel like he has to stay with me and he didn't answer ... I'm so upset I don't know what to do all I want is to hang out w him and feel he cares like he says he does

how do u act when u have dated someone for 3 years? do u hang out more then once a week? if she becomes pregnant do u still only hang out once a week?

ur gf of 3 years has a surprise pregnancy? at first he reacted bad then was cute that night... then decided to hang out with his boys and go to the bar tonight hasn't seen me in 5 days, I got mad bc he hasn't even talked about us hanging out just texts morning and night and maybe a lil in between. He stopped answering me about it so I told him I won't bother him again and I wish him the best in the future. I don't want him to pretend he loves me and feel stuck bc I'm pregnant. I just tried to call

and apologize and he didn't answer. I feel so alone

I just found out I was pregnant and high risk so I haven't been sleeping well and I told my bf of 3 years a week ago and haven't seen him since the day he found out. he wants to stay over tomorrow night and says I'll probably sleep better with him there, why would he say that when he snores and usually keeps me up?

told my bf of 3 years I was pregnant initially he freaked said he wasn't ready and didn't have the money... then that night he took me out said he was sorry had a cute date at the beach, he stayed over rubbed my belly... that was Thursday I haven't seen him since just a couple texts everyday and today he was off and went to his guy friend( who sexually harrassed me a couple weeks ago) to see his new place I said goodnight then he texted later he was goig to the bar and he hoped he didn't wake me up w that text... I'm so sad does he not want to be with me now?

my bf came over and said he would help me take down my fence and mow the front lawn bc i become short of breath easily lately do to health issues. We got the fence done and he said he had a dentist apt. He was mistaken and i believe he was and its on thursday. However i texted him and said i was done mowing the front yard and he could come pick up his dad's mower whenever. this is when he told me he was mistaken about the day and was at his friends house having his bike detailed. did let me know he could have still helped me. Then wanted me to come there after i had done all the work myself. Is that a crappy way to treat your gf?

he came over and helped me take down my old fence but said he'd help me mow the front lawn since the back w my mower took forever bc i'm having breathing issues that have me in and out of the hospital. then he said he had to go bc he had a dentist apt he forgot about. I mowed the lawn myself with his mower pushing myself which has me up now bc my lungs are hurting. Anyway when i texted him i finished and he could come pick up the mower whenever he said he had the date wrong and was at his friends house having his motorcycle detailed. how shoulld i take this he invited me to come over there but i feel really upset about this and he doesn't understand why.

my bf and i togehter 2 years have moved it together it was to much for him so i said we should take a break. we didnt' talk for 3 months and then got back together but he lives with his dad still now. How should i expect him to act? he's 26, i don't know if i'm expecting to much wanting to hang out more then a couple hrs a week and getting some 1 on 1 time with him to be romantic (bc this seems to not happen much now)

my bf is confusing me lately. he isn't romantic doesn't share feelings but i know it's kinda guy thing so i try to talk to him about it. Lately i've had health issues though and ive been in the er a couple times and he'll like ask about the next morn if i was there the night before but never asks again how i feel. I try to keep it to myself when i feel bad but it's breathing related. Today we tore down my old fence and i'm feeling bad now and he left before mowing the lawn liek he said he woudl left me his dad's mower and i did it myself. he said he had a dentist apt when i told him i finished the yard he could get the mower when he needs it he said he made a mistake the apt was thurs and he was at his friends having him detail his bike now and i could come over if i want. i ended up not going bc he invited then said, come later i'd be bored but by then i needed to be asleep.

So tonight i woke up having an asthma attack and cant fall back to sleep so i texted him and asked if we are just friends bc i don't feel like his gf. I feel like he helped me out and did the fence then ditched me and didn't keep his word bc he wanted to have his bike detailed. He said i love you and gives me kisses but our reliationship seems to be all texting bc of our schedules and he never plans dates ahead of time.

my bf came over and told me he'd help me take down my fence and mow my front yard to help me out. He helped me take the fence down and had his friend come over and detail his truck at my house. Then said he remembered he had a dentist apt but woudl leave the lawn mower for me to use. I helped do the fence w him and was exhausted but i mowed the lawn and texted him it was all done if he needed to mower back. He said he read the date wrong and was at his friends house having him detail his motorcycle now. Told me i was welcome to stop by his friends house. So I showered got ready and said send me the address i forget how to get there. Then he said his friends wife would be home in an hr i should come then bc i'll be bored. But he knew i had to go to bed early for the fence guys to come. Would u be mad. The situation just seems weird to me he told me to come over now after i said id be going to bed early but after he said not to come I didn't go bc i dont' know what he wants im so confused by his actions.

guy and i were good but last week i picked up a lot of overtime to pay for his bday present. I only had one day off and he knew that and was off the same day. I got mad becuase he didn't make plans with me so we haven't seen each other in over a week now. Told him all this but have been working since then and he was texting me like nothing happened.

Today i texted him at 8am and told him that if he doesn't want to be with me just let me know adn i'll never contact him again. Because this issue of him not planning stuff and me doing it has come up before and i want to know it will be resolved and not just ignored. I haven't heard anything from him at all today. HE is at work but as a volunteeer firefighter so he's had downtime by his phone.

What is up he didn't say he doesn't want to be together but he didn't say anything I don't know what to think and i'm off today so i just keep thinking about it but don't want to text him again. Should i wait you think he's pissed bc i called him out and said i woudl never speak to him again if that's what he wanted?

my guy was treating me wrong on and off he knew it but he keeps doing good for a bit then falling back into the same situation again and i get upset. No plans to hang out made and that's been my issue with him he doesn't plan dates or times we hang out i always do. I didn't do it this past week and we didn't see each other. Next week i have one day off i told him when it was but no plans made. Said if he wants to hang let me know bc one of my friends wants to make plans. I told him if he didn't want to be together anymore just let me know and i won't contact him again. He hasn't answered at all and it's been 6 hrs now. Is it a good sign he didn't just say he didn't want to be with me and is staying quiet or is it a bad sign. Is this treating me worse doing this?

My ex and i have been talking again he came over last night to watch movies. we watched one and it was past midnight and he said what's the next movie all excited to stay. by the end my head was on his shoulder and his head on my head. when he left he said thanks for having me over and gave me a hug goodbye. last time we hung out before this he walked me to my door and we just said bye. Is he taking it slow bc of our past but into me???

we text daily usually right before bed. Also snapchat here and there during the day.

was with my ex for 2 years. broke up 4 months ago, bc he became selfish and wouldn't text me or spend time with me i think he was overwhelmed with moving in together but didn't say it, had no contact until 2 weeks ago when i found something of his in our house and saw if he wanted it. since he's given me his phone number again. we've texted for 5 hrs on two days and random questions in between.. the last convo was a little quetsionable if it was just friendly or more.

i asked about a rental place what the name was adn said sorry to bug him at work.

him: your're not bugging me, it's no problem at all. told me what the place was and said he thinks they rent air compressors, but don't be whack me over the head if im mistaken lol.

me: thanks mucho much haha i'm not a whacker i poke people until they say knock it off lol less violent

him: lol true, I see to recall u tickle a lot as well.

then sent me a pilsbury dough boy picture that was scary/ halloweenish that said did u poke me? and he said just cuz i came across this literally right after you mentioned poking. lol

me; i only tickled you bc u said not to lol aww that pic is cute very fitting and halloweeny

him: reverse psychology huh? lol

so platonic friendly or something else? i'm just confused bc he never talked this much since we got together only when we first dated. and he's not the type to flirt openly or even talk about the tickling or the poking over text.

was with my ex for 2 years. broke up 4 monthes ago had no contact until 2 weeks ago when i found something of his in our house and saw if he wanted it. since he's given me his phone number again. we've texted for 5 hrs on two days and random questions in between.. the last convo was a little quetsionable if it was just friendly or more.

i asked about a rental place what the name was adn said sorry to bug him at work.

him: your're not bugging me, it's no problem at all. told me what the place was and said he thinks they rent air compressors, but don't be whack me over the head if im mistaken lol.

me: thanks mucho much haha i'm not a whacker i poke people until they say knock it off lol less violent

him: lol true, I see to recall u tickle a lot as well.

then sent me a pilsbury dough boy picture that was scary/ halloweenish that said did u poke me? and he said just cuz i came across this literally right after you mentioned poking. lol

me; i only tickled you bc u said not to lol aww that pic is cute very fitting and halloweeny

him: reverse psychology huh? lol

so platonic friendly or something else?

ex (broke up 4 months ago) gave me his number again when he came to pick something up at my house on Friday. I texted him Monday adn said it was good to see him and thanks for offering to help me with a car I'll keep my ears open is someone else needs a car. (I got in a car accident so he offered to sell me a car he had cheap)

he said good seeing your too. talked about the car...then added a couple minutes later I hope you are feeling after your accident.

was he trying to continue the conversation with me? why would he?

and when I answer he keeps asking quetions and we talk for 5 hrs eventually I start asking about him as well. we talked until he was done work. why all the talking? he was asking about my work and such.

today he texted me just saying "random question is this week nurse week?"

i answer him and he just said oh yeah someone was telling me it was

i explained a little more about nursing week he said I didn't know that

I just said lol I know to much about nursing now, have a good day

he said you too

and I said thanks

I asked him if he was working next sun and he said yea

said oh poo trying to get someone to use my tickets for the eagles game

he said sorry i can't. i'll pass the work along if you want, tho

i said no thanks i'll find someone but thanks

he said no prob

ex (broke up 4 months ago) gave me his number again when he came to pick something up at my house on Friday. I texted him Monday adn said it was good to see him and thanks for offering to help me with a car I'll keep my ears open is someone else needs a car. (I got in a car accident so he offered to sell me a car he had cheap)

he said good seeing your too. talked about the car...then added a couple minutes later I hope you are feeling after your accident.

was he trying to continue the conversation with me? why would he?

and when I answer he keeps asking quetions and we talk for 5 hrs eventually I start asking about him as well. we talked until he was done work. why all the talking? he was asking about my work and such.

today he texted me just saying "random question is this week nurse week?"

i answer him and he just said oh yeah someone was telling me it was

i explained a little more about nursing week he said I didn't know that

I just said lol I know to much about nursing now, have a good day

he said you too

and I said thanks

I am a nurse so the question kinda makes sense but he works on an ambulance with a nurse so what's he doing?

we broke up because he got very selfish and didn't think about me or my feelings but now he seems to only ask about me.

ex (broke up 4 months ago) gave me his number again when he came to pick something up at my house on Friday. I texted him Monday adn said it was good to see him and thanks for offering to help me with a car I'll keep my ears open is someone else needs a car. (I got in a car accident so he offered to sell me a car he had cheap)

he said good seeing your too. talked about the car...then added a couple minutes later I hope you are feeling after your accident.

was he trying to continue the conversation with me? why would he?

and when I answer he keeps asking quetions and we talk for 5 hrs eventually I start asking about him as well. we talked until he was done work. why all the talking? he was asking about my work and such.

today he texted me just saying "random question is this week nurse week?"

i answer him and he just said oh yeah someone was telling me it was

i explained a little more about nursing week he said I didn't know that

I just said lol I know to much about nursing now, have a good day

he said you too

and I said thanks

I am a nurse so the question kinda makes sense but he works on an ambulance with a nurse so what's he doing?

we broke up because he got very selfish and didn't think about me or my feelings but now he seems to only ask about me.