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guys he thinks theres nothing wrong am i over reacting about what he did?
my bf came over and said he would help me take down my fence and mow the front lawn bc i become short of breath easily lately do to health issues. We got the fence done and he said he had a dentist apt. He was mistaken and i believe he was and its on thursday. However i texted him and said i was done mowing the front yard and he could come pick up his dad's mower whenever. this is when he told me he was mistaken about the day and was at his friends house having his bike detailed. did let me know he could have still helped me. Then wanted me to come there after i had done all the work myself. Is that a crappy way to treat your gf?
i dont expect him to do yard work i did the back yard myself and it took me three hrs the day before so he offered to do the front on his own i didn't even ask. and i was out there with him doing the fence and this isn't the first time. I work 12 hrs days so when i work if he says he can i don't hire someone to let my dog out but on two occassions recently he said he forgot two days in a row and my dog went 14 hrs without going out bc he didn't tell me until i asked him if he let her out
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- 7 years ago
Relationships should be built on trust. If you can't trust this guy, then you shouldn't date him. It's that simple. However, you could remain in the relationship and just be aware that it may happen again at any time. It's a single incident so there's nothing to be too angry about, but if you really want to, it's your decision. So nobody on Yahoo Answers should be able to change your life drastically anyways. All we can do is give you advice so you can hopefully make your own decisions. Remember that you're human and you will make mistakes, as will your boyfriend. Good luck.
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- yLv 77 years ago
While it may not have been what I would have done. Your yard, your work, women are not helpless little things that need us big strong men to do the dirty work anymore.
- ?Lv 77 years ago
Its how guys are. If he did not want to do the job he should have told you and been honest.
Ask him not to lie to you anymore and if he wants to help you appreciate it, but you would rather he did it because he wanted to and not because its expected of him.
Give him the benefit of the doubt this time but be aware it could happen again but let him know it upset you a little and you don't want him lying anymore.
