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ladies how would you react to this??? he in his late 20's?

my bf came over and told me he'd help me take down my fence and mow my front yard to help me out. He helped me take the fence down and had his friend come over and detail his truck at my house. Then said he remembered he had a dentist apt but woudl leave the lawn mower for me to use. I helped do the fence w him and was exhausted but i mowed the lawn and texted him it was all done if he needed to mower back. He said he read the date wrong and was at his friends house having him detail his motorcycle now. Told me i was welcome to stop by his friends house. So I showered got ready and said send me the address i forget how to get there. Then he said his friends wife would be home in an hr i should come then bc i'll be bored. But he knew i had to go to bed early for the fence guys to come. Would u be mad. The situation just seems weird to me he told me to come over now after i said id be going to bed early but after he said not to come I didn't go bc i dont' know what he wants im so confused by his actions.

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  • 7 years ago

    I wouldn't be mad he wanted you to come. Also to me it seems like he was looking out for you, he said to come when his friends wife is home so you would have someone to hang out with. I'm sure he will understand that you would rather not go since you have to wake up early. :)

  • 7 years ago

    My ex was exactly the same way. He decided one day to clean the house and move our furniture around. Once everything was where he wanted it he told me he was going to his friends house. I asked him if he was going to help me clean up since he was the one who wanted to move everything. His response was most of it is your stuff anyway and he left me to do all the cleaning. That was when he lived rent free for almost a year! I dumped his a** because I was tired of getting no help and having to do everything myself. I like being an independent woman and not needing a mans help but it's nice sometimes especially when you were promised help. This guy sounds flaky. I would sit and think about this relationship and if your being treated fairly and getting the attention you deserve.

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    she is want boyfrien

  • 7 years ago

    IDK what's going on here sorry

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