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I ALMOST orgasm then it leaves. Is it me?

I've been having sex with the same partner for almost 5 years and at first I would never even come close to orgasm (sad I know) and lately idk what's different but it's gotten to where he almost makes me have a vaginal orgasm,which I hear is difficult to achieve, and right when it's about to happen it goes away. Is it just me that makes it go away from thinking about how it's about to happen???

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  • Anonymous
    7 years ago
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    You should try to relax, being in your own head isn't good. I've had the same girlfriend for 4 years and at first I never could get her, and it wasn't because it was too short. If its not the amount of time try something new, look up different ways to stimulate you more and possibly make him last longer, such as short fast thrusts instead of going so deep

  • ?
    Lv 7
    7 years ago

    nope its probably him and no having an orgasm is not that difficult for a lady

    no i am a male at the same time i have not had any real difficulty giving a number of different ladies climaxes and i consider myself very average

    he needs to improve his act more control more foreplay longer sex

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    It must be you I make my girls orgasm a few times so I think that's odd . Unless he lasts a few minutes

  • 7 years ago

    incorporate a vibrator into the bedroom

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  • 7 years ago

    Does he have enough stamina?

  • 7 years ago

    Its you honey

  • 7 years ago

    make him do it longer

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