why is my girlfriend so controlling?

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We've been dating for a year now, and ever since, she's been getting even more controlling. Literally almost every single day, we get into small to large arguments for stupid reasons. I constantly text, call, and hang out with her, and now she's telling me that I pay more attention on instagram rather than paying attention to her, which is not true. I even gave her access to my Facebook, yet, it still feels like she doesn't trust me. What do I do?

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she is clearly not mature enough to be in a relationship.. fighting everyday is not love and is not what a relationship is about.. without trust you have nothing so do her a favor and say goodbye or she will never learn what she did wrong.. You can't make someone trust you so you need to ask yourself if this is really how you want to live..

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I think shes insecure so has trust issues. (Maybe something happened before in a past relationship) just make sure to make her understand she genuinely means something to you, then maybe she'll be less insecure that you'll find a replacement. (Although by the sound of it you have been doing that) if that doesn't work sit down and tell her that you can't have lack of trust in a relationship and she needs to learn to trust you if you two want to continue. (Make sure to make it specific thats the only reason) if she's being unreasonable, you cant let her boss you about either. Its also been getting worst because now that you live together, not only are you more important to her (your relationship status has raised) but she also has more of a chance. Maybe try taking her out on more dates and couple activities so you can interact more and talk about the subject then. The closer she gets to you the more she might let go.

Anonymous · Answer

Because you're a pussy.

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