Yahoo Answers is shutting down on May 4th, 2021 (Eastern Time) and beginning April 20th, 2021 (Eastern Time) the Yahoo Answers website will be in read-only mode. There will be no changes to other Yahoo properties or services, or your Yahoo account. You can find more information about the Yahoo Answers shutdown and how to download your data on this help page.

Why was she rejected?

I have this friend. She's beautiful, smart, and kind. She's also young, sensitive, a little insecure, and maybe cares about looks too much when it comes to people she is interested in. But all in all an amazing person. But she doesn't tend to get interest from guys. When she likes someone she gets probably too invested. The other day this guy rejected her. She's really upset about it. I don't understand why this guy would reject her. This girl is way better than him. She's lovely. This guy is nice looking, but stupid and not that interesting. The reason I ask is if this girl can't get a boyfriend, what chance do the rest of us have? I've had relationships in the past but they've been with horrible people. I just don't understand why this isn't happening for my friend.

7 Answers

Relevance
  • Anonymous
    7 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    Never compare yourself to another, young one. Meaning, if your friend can't seem to get with this one boy. That's fine. Better off to her because that boy missed a good chance of getting to know a good one anyways. You will eventually come to learn this one day. Boys will be the last thing on the list of issues we deal on the day to day. Live while you can and lessen the stress. Until you experience and know how to deal with them just keep it moving

    Goodluck

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    I think you're looking too much at the outside appearance. Granted you know that there is more to a person than what is on the outside; but what is considered beautiful differs from person to person. Beauty isn't as textbook as we often make it out. Now before you trash the guy for rejecting your friend, just understand that he doesn't see what you see in her. She obviously isn't his type, and he has his reasons, but that doesn't say anything about your friend. It can be superficial to question the chances of others based off this one incident. I'm sure the whole story behind your friend's rejection isn't known to you really, so I wouldn't over analyze the situation.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    7 years ago

    We don't have any control over who is interested in us and who isn't. That is why its always better to spend time getting to know those that are interested instead of being concerned about those that are not. Just look at it as its his loss choosing not to get to know this great girl.

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    she just cares too much about that nerd.. he's not of her type.. when time comes she will be the one ignoring others .. A girl really needs some attitude ;)

  • How do you think about the answers? You can sign in to vote the answer.
  • 7 years ago

    well everyone has their own taste in a person, even you. No matter how beautiful a person is, she probably wasn't his type.

  • 7 years ago

    Perhaps the guy could see that she was not suitable for him, or too shy to take her up on the offer.

    There is plenty of men in the world, somewhere there will be one for her.( and you)

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    may be she was in love with someone else

Still have questions? Get your answers by asking now.