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Will I ever fall in love again?
I'm 20 years old an I feel hopeless. I dated a girl in high school. She wast first love, very gorgeous, and treated me great. We always talked about marriage and our future. We felt unstoppable, I felt so happy and that I was on top of the world. We were together for 3 years and yes she was my first love. Senior year she made new friends, joined the dance team, and met popular guys and she just forgot about me and we just broke up. It's been almost 3 years yet it still feels like yesterday. I know there wouldn't be another chance with her cause she is a whole different person. I've dated other gorgeous women, I tried to connect wht them but I have a hard time and I don't know why. I end up breaking There hearts cause I feel like I can't connect or fall in love anymore. What is this? How can I change it?
3 Answers
- 7 years ago
The reason it's difficult to become connected with other women is because at that young age your brain was still in development and might still be. The teenage years are crucial in brain development and you spent three of those crucial years "loving" someone. That caused your brain to develop around you and her having a symbiotic relationship. It may be hard to understand, but your thinking patterns adapted to follow your feelings for her.
I used to always think parents telling their kids not to date was dumb, but after learning enough in psychology I understand it. Sorry that it's bad news.
- 7 years ago
Your only 20 years old there's other stuff to do then applying to much pressure on trying to find love again. Take your time and have patience and it will come to you. Aim for goals and live life.
- 7 years ago
You will find someone for sure :). takes times and you got to keep making friends. Try to just focus on being the best you can and see everything as a opportunity. Mind answering my question?