Should I wait until it's " official "? How will I know when that is?

I think maybe 2 or 3 months that you've been officially dating him. If you see a long future with this guy definitely wait.

If you can't talk to him about it, then you don't have a relationship. Give it time. Go slow. Get to know each other.

The more you communicate and spend time together, the better you two can decide if you want to continue dating and take it further.

I'm pretty much a granny and I wouldn't consider myself a nymphomaniac slash sex pro. Worry not! Just be open on the subject and make sure you two understand what you both like and what you both don't like.

if you think labels are more important than your feelings then end it now

if you think the only reason you are dating is guilt free sex end it now

if you truly care for each other then why are labels so important???

sex is not a reward for staying together its and expression (NOT proof) of your feelings for each other ---- an expression there are no words for

you know when you want sex because you dont need to ask anyone else its how you feel

stop thinking there are rules stop thinking and start feeling

this is ROMANCE where your feelings are paramount not how soon you jump into bed

if you think that way do it now then you will KNOW if he wants more than sex

U are his side hoe. Lol he's using u for sex don't even think about it going farther

wait as long as you can. its the only thing you have that he wants. on the other hand if you can come to terms with him leaving you after, go for it. but think if you are actually goingto be emotionally ready for that

you should wait. tease, but do not give in.