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What Should I Do about this Girl?

I was at a party for one of my good friends on Saturday night and while I was there, this girl walked in and sat at the table all of my friends were at. She was sharing a seat with someone across the table, so I figured this friend and her were dating. I talked with her a little, mostly small talk if anything, and when we left I made sure to say goodbye to her and shake her hand. I hadn't caught her name either, so I asked her that as well. Anyway, since that night, I can't get her out of my mind. It turns out, according to someone I talked to, that she isn't dating the kid she was sitting with and is seemingly single. I knew she had an Instagram, so I made one and followed her after making sure it looked like is been on Instagram for more than a night. However, she hasn't followed me back yet. I know it's only been a few hours, but what should I do if she doesn't follow back? Should I send her a direct message? How can I talk to her and get her to like me? Other things? Thanks for your help!

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  • 7 years ago

    Ok!!!!!! Here's what you do.. If she hasn't followed back in a couple days.. Like one of her pics not one that's like a selfie or anything that way you don't come off as creepy. And see if she adds you. Usually that works. And then go from there. Don't be too weird and pursue her if she doesn't really know you too well. You don't want to come off too strong:) and then little by little comment on her pics. And make sure your Instagram has pics!!!!!

  • 7 years ago

    I think you're way too old for her. You shook her hand at the end of the party and you didn't have an instagram account so yeh, too old for her.

    Apparently, she's just not into an older guy so you prob shouldn't waste your time. Maybe look for someone closer to your age!! : /

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    i think that you should wait a week and if she still hasn't followed you back talk to her and slide the question in jokingly, like.."haha so you haven't followed me back on instagram*laugh*"

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    Try to obtain her phone number and call her.

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    yes you should talk to her directly .tell her that you like or try to do which she like

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