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Please a little help, girls?
what will be your thinking or what should a guy think that the girl has replied to your message (not a question, just a comment) after couple of hours on whatsapp. Keeping in mind that the girl came online and went offline about 10 times.
i am asking, what will be your mindset towards the guy if you reply in such a way? or What should a guy assess the situation as if a girl replies back having read the message/comment couple of hour ago.
Just a brief background.
this girl says she likes me and is interested in me and as per her she shows it too. I don't feel it or see it. Plus she has never dated before. she is 25 years old.
3 Answers
- JLv 77 years agoFavorite Answer
She sounds too busy for you or preoccupied. Logging in and out about 10 times in a few hrs means she is up to date with the latest, and just not otherwise responding. If she is 25 yrs old, never dated, and a bit aloof, she may not be what you are specifically looking for. On the flip side, I never understood why people think that every msg has to be immediately responded to if not a question, or an emergency. I am not replying if I am driving, eating, showering, shopping, talking to someone else, sleeping, working, or whatever.. My phone and computer are not attached to me at all times. I do have a life and important things to do. She probably does too. Anyone who expects your undivided attention over social media is too demanding. Whether male or female, it does not matter. It is called being clingy. Big turn off. If you want her undivided attention, go on a date. That will be a better time to assess if she is the type of person you are interested in. Independent and busy people do
Source(s): not feel it necessary to reply to every blurb or comment. It is not being rude, it is only prioritizing what you do with your time. If you think replying, liking or commenting on everything is having good manners...well, then you expect that person to have no other life and it should revolve around you. That is just plain selfish. If she responded to a comment, that should be good enough. If you expected a convo, try a private msg and ask some questions. - 7 years ago
There is a very good chance that she's actually busy. Going online and offline doesn't necessarily mean that she's made a decision on whether or not to address your comment - and she eventually did. Remember that there are many people who have the discipline to put important commitments at a higher priority than informal contacts, even with people they're attracted to.
In this particular scenario, the information you've provided is insufficient for forming an overall assessment of her intentions. There are numerous possible explanations for her erratic activity levels in the interim between your comment and her response. When the circumstances are so ambiguous, it's best to take a step back until you are able to respond from a place of reason, rather than emotion.