I love my siblings more than they love me?

I'm the same age as my brother and sister (we're 24), and while I have many close friends, I've long considered them to be my two best friends. However, it hurts me because I've been gradually realizing that they don't seem to care about me (or each other) as much as I care about them. We all live in separate parts of the country now, but I know that eventually in the future I would love nothing more than to live near them (especially if we each get married and/or have children-- we've never been close with any of our cousins due to long distance, and I don't want that to happen if the three of us have our own kids). Both of them have casually admitted that they don't really think about the family most of the time when they're out on their own, but I think about them all the time. My deepest wish has always been for them to just live happy, fulfilling lives, but sometimes it seems like they could care less about me, and worse, about each other. Has anyone ever been in similar circumstances?

It is the way I feel too , I am the only sibling without children , maybe that makes a difference !...I don't know,good luck and Merry Christmas to You

Ur siblings are horrible people

Your siblings were so lucky to have you as their sister. If you feel as they care less about you then, why dont you better speak with them privately? First start with your sister regarding this .. After that still they remains the same, then that's what they. To say about myself, my family is a nuclear family, i have a brother, he is two years elder than me. He is very very selfish person. He doesn't care or love my family. He used to keep on abusing us without reason. I dont like him at all and also i hate him so much. To describe his character in one word is, he is a saddist/psycho/maniac.

While reading about your (this) question, i thought myself that, Why God didn't give me a sibling like you?

Same here mate,