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My lady best friend?

Ok I have a girl best friend that always calls me best friend but I do have a strong sexual attraction to her however

-One we just met and she already saying she loves me of course I know as a friend

-Two she is always touching up on me and she is very touchy touchy I can sit on the other side of the bench and she comes really close all up on me

-Three she tells me I'm the best in the whole wide world and that I have to tell my other lady friends that she comes first even the girls I talk to

-four she is currently workin on a relationship where a guy always do her wrong

-five what should I do? Is it possible that she may like me more as a best friend or what? It's very weird I like her in a physical attraction way but I'm thinking about just backing off and not being there much for her anymore

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  • 7 years ago

    She probably thinks you're a nice guy and calls you best friend to justify her actions towards you - e.g. touching you - because then in her eyes she isn't doing something wrong. You're probably a breath of fresh air to her. I wouldn't back of - she probably really appreciates you as a friend and when she's already having a tough time with her boyfriend she doesn't need to lose you too. Also, its obvious that even if you're only friends you are close - don't leave and make her feel mistreated or you'll never have a chance with her and she'll lose hope that any guy can treat her right.

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    Hi im Simon : the same happened to me an I told her how I felt an I said I'm sorry I'll leave you alone but then she said she likes me too an then kissed me on the check

  • 7 years ago

    Sounds to me that she does like like you, but if she has a boyfriend already then she's not gonna say. If you don't want to be in the friendzone forever then tell her NOW. seriously, the longer you leave it to tell her the harder it will get. Good luck bro

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