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Is this an unreasonable request?

I met the guy I'm dating online. We have been dating for about 2 months.

I want to ask him to delete his profile from the website we met on. But I'm not sure if it's to soon to ask this or if it's an unreasonable request at this stage.

All opinions and advice welcome :)

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  • 7 years ago
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    First ask him what level he thinks the relationship between you two is at, if he admits that it's a serious relationship or at least on the same page that you feel its on... Then ask him to delete his profile.

  • 7 years ago

    That's how online dating works. You date multiple people at the same time. Unless he tells you he loves you or makes it official that you are his girlfriend, assume he is dating other people and accept it. Just because you made your choice to choose him doesn't mean he made that choice at the same time. Be patient. Men like that in a women. He may even still have it up, testing you to see if your one of those pushy girls. (don't fail the test) Who knows? maybe he's made his choice and just hasn't gotten around to delete it.

  • 7 years ago

    I like Arizona's answer. I would only add that you two could make a special "we deleted our accounts from the site we met" day. Suggest doing that perhaps, to bring the subject up.

    And I don't think it's unreasonable at all. If things don't work, it wont kill him to make it anew.

  • 7 years ago

    I wouldn't try to push that too much. You don't want to be demanding especially if you too are casually dating.

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  • 7 years ago

    Yeah, I don't think it is good time to say him, and also there is no need to say, as it doesn't make sense.

  • 7 years ago

    Yes it's too much. There is no guarentee that you and him will click.

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    I tink you should ask him if the relationship is official and if he says yes it is completely acceptable request

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