My boyfriend and I got into an argument, he wont answer his phone. what should I do?

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My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship, he is in new york and I am in boston. Last month I saw a flyer about a pink and white party on my boyfriend's friends facebook page. My boyfriend tells me he doesnt party at all. On the day of the party he said he was home. I called him and  it kept going straight to voicemail. The next morning he answered and said he was sleeping all night. He came to boston and I went through his phone looking for pictures of us and I found a picture of him and his friend at the pink and white party. I hit him with my pillow and kicked him out of the house . I told him how bad that made me feel and I asked him why he lied and he said that he didnt lie. He said I was over exaggerating and im.jumping to conclusion. What would he need to lie for, I dont mimd him going out, I just dont like neing lied to. So he left and went on his way to New York, I called him just to see if he got on the bus safely and no answer, he wont answer his phone, so I stopped calling him. Do you think im overreacting, but why did he have to need to lie?

Anonymous · Answer

i think at the moment you need to give it time, but in a day or so call him and if he doesn't respond send him a text. If he said he wasn't there then believe him. But you should say that it wouldn't bother you if he did go, and that you don't really care if he goes to party's. And if there is a next time don't react the same way.

Anonymous · Answer

Either two things, he lied because he thought you would be mad he went out to a party, or he is lying because he did something he wasn't supposed to while at that party. Either way , leave him alone for awhile. Let him cool down. After a few days try to call or send a text to say hey you ok?apologize for freaking out, and ask if he didn't go then what happened, cause he implied you were jumping to conclusions, so you want to know what the real story is then. If he still doesn't answer then f him! By the way, lying is a bad sign. Not saying he is guilty of anything, just that he seems to be hiding something, and do you really want to continue in a relationship that has no trust?

? · Answer

It could very well be a last minute thing that he decided to go to that party which he wasn't going to initially but changed his mind at last minute, He might have not told you because he didn't feel it matters that much or he didn't feel as if its a lie because he didn't planned to go but it was a last minute thing or it would be complicated to explain and lastly, if this is how you will react after finding out then he/No one will Like to tell you things straight up..... It could be just this one time he went to a party, which he wasn't going to but at last minute changed his mind and thought if he'll tell you then it will bring up a new argument, you will think he might cheat or he might have lied about more etc.,

Christy · Answer

Well he says he didn't lie, so I would trust him, and let him explain himself. First appologize for hitting him and kicking him out and calling him a liar. Then he might answer his phone. If you care about the relationship, try to make up with him. It looks like you need to be the one appologizing first....

Anonymous · Answer

Okay, give him a little time and space but when you make contact again I think you should apologize for going through his phone and kicking him out(even if he's wrong he won't talk unless you apologize just be the bigger person) explain to him that you are concerned about why he had to lie to you if all he did was go to a party. Tell him you are assuming the worst (as i would be if I were you, no judging) and if it turns out he lied for a reason (example: he cheated) dump his sorry ***.

? · Answer

I think your overreacting and i think ur bf is stupid you should date honest guys so I would find someone better if I were you

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