How often are you girls actually approached?

Most guys don't have the guts to approach They come to yahoo answers and post long questions, starting with "Do you think she might maybe like me? What should I do?"

Usually the only guys who have the guts to approach are the "bad boy douchbags", and then all the nice guy cry "girls only like jerks waaa"

Personally, I'm approached very little. I get a lot of catcalls, which tells me that the ratio of guys who are willing to get to know me as a person in order to possibly peruse a relationship compared to the guys who see me as a piece of meat with a hole in it is not a particularly good one. Like blundt cake said, a lot of the guys who actually see women as people, not ******* machines, are shy, and may not come forward, but I think a lot would at least try to be friends.

If a guy was nice to me, and tried to be friends as well as possibly a boyfriend, I'd give him a shot - as long as I was attracted to him too. A lot of guys think that if they treat a woman respectfully and she doesn't date them, that she's being unreasonable, which is ridiculous. Not all women are attracted to all men! Women are not obliged to date a guy just because he's nice to her. Being nice is a baseline requirement, not a measure of attractiveness.

So, if a guy was respectful and nice to me, I thought we would be compatible as friends, and I found him reasonably attractive (not always about looks - it can be about personality instead), then yeah, I'd give him a shot. But just being nice to a woman and filling the basic standards of being a decent human being doesn't mean you'll have women falling all over you. You wouldn't date every woman in the world, no matter how nice they were, and the same goes for women. People are people! Sometimes they work out, sometimes they don't.

Honestly? Never, and I can see why I never get approached.