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How to tell my wife she is obese?

When I first met my wife she was thin and gorgeous, she is now the size of a barn. I've tried telling her she just keeps going "Oh I think I've lost weight" - but she hasn't. She is getting bigger by the day.

This weekend for example she ate bacon and eggs Saturday, Sunday and had them Monday morning as well.

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  • 7 years ago
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    She will be well aware of her size, she wont need you to tell her.How about taking up exercise together and both eating healthily>? By the way eggs and bacon cooked in healthy oil, or poached or grilled isnt bad for you. its less fattening that cereal for example. . .

  • Baldev
    Lv 5
    7 years ago

    Dear Friend, your wife is going through some emotional problems which I believe even she does not realize and don’t think that she does not know if she is putting on more weight she has eyes and she does know it but there are people who are a bit lazy and avoid doing things which they don’t like.

    If you are worried about her putting on so much weight then instead of criticizing her or feeling bad about it (which she can see) why don’t talk to her, give her a hug and tell her how much you love her and then you both join a gym or any exercising program this will motivate her a lot.

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    Having bacon and eggs for breakfast 3 days in a row makes someone fat? Lol okay.

    Just don't be a dick. Unless it's legitimately affecting her heath, which I doubt it is, then who cares? If you really loved her, then why care about her weight? If she isn't as "gorgeous" now as she was when she was thinner...you don't deserve her? Not all women have to say in shape for men, why is it that you lot are the only ones that are allowed to get fatter has time progresses? Lol fuck off.

  • 7 years ago

    When My husband got tubby, I talked to him about his weight and exercise and eating habits. He chose to continue to eat too much. There was no point for me to tell him over and over, but after a couple of years, he got cancer and during treatment he lost all the weight and more. That was years ago and he recovered fine and now exercises and eats better.

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  • 7 years ago

    Hmmm... Well you could break it to her gently and if she already knows about her wieght start suggesting exercising at the gym or something. You could also start the paleo diet, my parents did that and my dad got down to his wedding weight(He was athletic, ergo a beanpole). My mom is still working on it but she's nearly down to her weding weight(She was skinny too).

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    Bacon and eggs? That's it? I would have thrown in a few pancakes, hash browns, and toast. Count your blessings. The situation could always be worse.

  • fizixx
    Lv 7
    7 years ago

    LOL.....well, people that blow up like a great big fat balloon after marriage is a deal-breaker. You are going to have to tell Jumbo that it's either you are the bacon.

    You should probably start packing your bags.

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    thin and gorgeous? you dont deserve her, not matter what size she is she should always be gorgeous to you. maybe shes going through a rough time or has some issues but you dont seem to notice? all you notice is her size. idiot grow up and be a man stop being a vein ass

  • ?
    Lv 7
    7 years ago

    She already hinted that she isn't going on a diet and to accept her the way she is. (ugh) Your call.

  • 7 years ago

    make exercising part of your life (daily/weekly) and after she see the results your getting maybe it will rub off onto her

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