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Is the relationship worth it? long plz help?
Is this relationship worth it? its long story plz help?So my boyfriend and I have known each other since we were in 7th we r now 28 yrs old and we dated a few yrs ago and some problems came up and we thought we needed to get them straight and then try again. He was in the army as a medic and was hurt in Iraq this was a while back about 8 yrs ago he went in at 18 and got hurt a few yr after. He got addicted to the pain pills that were prescribed....I love him so much as he loves me so much he shows he tells me he is so smart we love same things activities hobbies it feels so perfect on good days.. I have a son from a previous marriage and I have a very good job can support my self I am STABLE... I worry he can never be stable if its not one thing after another falls apart with him... About 6 months ago he got in a wreck some one hit him on a motorcycle and he has had to some pt his arm has a lot of problems he now can't work and he is slowly looking what little but he had. ...but I go to speak with the doctors, sobriety meetings lawyers... h e includes me in everything so I understand most of it is out of his control but its like I feel he won't ever be stable and o just need to know am I wrong and should work it out with him bc we do love each other or move on?
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- 7 years ago
If you truly love him, be with him, if not, move on. There are "plenty of fish in the sea". He may not be stable because he may be scared of being stable. Almost everyone is scared of their fleeting youth. If you do decide to stay with him, show him how much you care, support him until his arm gets better. If he is still addicted to pain pills, or there is another problem, possibly stage an intervention. You show a little doubt, so I would say move on, but I may be wrong, and you may truly love him. If I am wrong, then just stay with him. Decide if he is treating you the way you want to be treated, if he is someone you can trust, and if he is the one you find yourself with. Even if you eventually decide that he is not, it may help him if you stay his friend, because he sounds depressed, and you may be able to help him if anything gets worse.
