Can I *** from sex with my bf eventually?

Don't know for sure. Womens' sexuality is very complicated. It could be about your emotional condition. It's obviously a physical problem if you need a vibrator. Just undersyand, the more you use that vibrator, the farther away you will put yourself from a natural orgasm with a man. Some women aren't orgasmic at a young age. Some women aren't orgasmic ever. A nice long ng buildup helps. A stressless day, a nice dinner, relaxation, long make-out session, long foreplay/oral sex, and long intercourse. If you can't have an orgasm that way, give up on the man, and use the vibrator.

There could be a psychological reason, too.

The most important sexual organ in a woman is the brain. You need to be turned on psychologically. Stop seeing sex as something that you do on your own, but an opportunity to connect physically and emotionally with your sweetie. First of all stop putting pressure on yourself to have an orgasm and enjoy the experience. It is a myth that every sexual encounter will result in an orgasm for you. Like M said above, if you are relaxed, confident and feel desired, a nice long and leisurely foreplay, oral and intercourse should make you feel good and an orgasm will come naturally. Do not expect your guy to mimic your toy.

By using these vibrators, you have desensitized yourself "down there" so that it will be increasingly more difficult for you to reach orgasm. I would strongly advise you to stop using the vibrators so that you may regain the sensitivity to your genitals.

Have you tried toys while having sex with him maybe try a vibrating clock ring or try lots for play before hand

Tell him.