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I accidentally said "I love you" too soon to my girlfriend and I think I may have ruined it?

Little background:

I am twenty three, and I met my current girlfriend online from a dating website because neither of us have time to go out and meet people with our busy work schedules. We talked for a couple months, went on some dates and really hit it off. She is pretty, sweet, nerdy, and is a very genuine person. She has met my mom and I have met her parents and friends. They are all happy for us. I asked her to be my girlfriend and she said yes.

Now we have been dating for about two weeks officially, and last night we were cuddling watching a movie. I accidentally let an "I love you" slip. Her reaction was "WHAT?!" and seemed a little freaked out by it.

I didn't know what to say so I just let it pass. About 10 minutes later she pulled away, and started acting kinda weird. She wouldn't go near me, and she wouldn't even hug me when I left. Now, she is not answering any of my texts, not responding to anything.

I do not know what to do. I do care about her a lot, and I do not want to mess this up, as this is the first time that I am genuinely happy in a long time. What should I do?

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  • 7 years ago

    Yea she needs a little time to process it. Or maybe she dont feel the same about u. She might be the type not to be in a serious relationship. I been around lots of girls been in n out of relationships. U know when a girl truly loves you. Maybe she does love you. Maybe she been hurt in the past and has issues trusting ppl again. All im saying. Just take the time and let her calm down. Then talk to her gently. Start off Like "babe whats the matter? Everything ok?"

    Good luck (:

  • ~Baby~
    Lv 5
    7 years ago

    Give her time and you will know what happened. It's really weird cause most girls love those words coming from a guys mouth when they are gf and bf.

  • 7 years ago

    Dont pressure her shes probably over thinking it. Let her call you or text you. Its ok to say stuff like that its no biggie. Shes probably the type of girl that takes those words seriously.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    7 years ago

    Move on no matter how you feel about her she does not like you

    you ruined nothing because there was really nothing there

    yes I know how I sound but to treat you like that because you expressed your feelings is cruel inconsiderate and uncaring

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  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    Way too soon to say that.....

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