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Attention Seeking?

How do you deal with an attention seeker and give them help? I hang out with a group of about 15 people (I'm a senior in high school), and there is this one girl who is always attention seeking and being dramatic. For example, last year she refused to eat. Now let me say, I don't doubt that she had an eating issue, but she was not quiet about it. She would go around and tell all of our friends how she didn't eat breakfast, or how she only ate cereal the day before. Some friends intervened and started to try and give her food, and when that didn't work they told her parents( both her parents are at home a lot, and she has a good home life). I have known people who have an eating disorder, and they are quiet about it, whereas she would be super loud about it and make comments like "Oh I didn't eat today" constantly. After the whole eating thing was over, she would constantly stir up drama between different people (like starting rumors, playing the he/she said game etc). Earlier this year she went through a period of depression, but same thing, she was super attention seeking about it. She would always mope around, and cry and complain about how sad she was. The thing is, probably half of my friends, myself included, suffer from depression. But not a single one of us was outspoken and self-pitying about it.She would constantly be rude to people & whine about how sad and how much her life sucked. I feel for her, I have depression too, but I've NEVER met a depressed person who

Update:

openly showed feelings like she did and went around saying how depressed they are. I found out recently that for a while she had wanted to kill herself (in my defense, I had no idea until 2 days ago), but the thing is she now has a boyfriend. And she was apparently suicidal and super badly depressed close to when she started dating. But for as depressed as she said she was, within a week of starting to date, she was completely happy and not suicidal anymore, and is no longer depressed.

Update 2:

I have never met someone who is suicidal to snap out of it that fast. I've known many several depressed/suicidal people and they said it took them 6 months- 1 year to be better and happy again. But like I said she was almost instantly happy. I've been severely depressed the last 6 months, and while it's getting better, it's a slow process. I'm tired of hearing her drama. I have no doubt that she does suffer from depression a bit, & had an ED but her attitude doesn't match up w/ the typical signs

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  • 7 years ago
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    Wow it's bishes like that. This girl is obviously not depressed, suicidal, or whatever else she says she is. You were right about her needing attention, and you were right about the fact that no one snaps out of stuff like that so fast. It's true that outgoing people can still have issues, but it sounds like she doesn't know the true depth of an eating disorder- it's not a couple week-long thing. It takes awhile and gets worse and worse. Also, it you are suicidal, you probably wouldn't be able to get a boyfriend because you'd be so depressed, and you definitely wouldn't be ship shape in a week. She probably needs a lot of attention and has low self esteem. She definitely has issues, and you should confront her about them honestly and ask her how they have made her feel depressed. Maybe if you show her you care she won't need so much extra attention.

  • 7 years ago

    tell her to stop being such a sucky and deal with it just say ppl try help u dont want help well we dont want to hear it!!!!

  • Anonymous
    6 years ago

    Why does your taste in music suck so bad?

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