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How to gain confidence to talk to a woman?

I'm going to make this short, i'm 20, and i used to feel like "No one ever wants to date me" but overtime, i realized it's not because no girl wants me, it's because I never take the chance when the opportunity comes up, what can i do to try, even if i never talked to her. I do know that there is no harm in trying, the worst she can say is no, but knowing that still doesn't help. What should i do?

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  • 7 years ago

    It can be very difficult to get comfortable talking to a new girl or woman. You do need to take things slowly and let the relationship and conversation evolve. Talk to her about school, sports, music, movies, books, hobbies, special interests, friends, family, pets, events that are happening around you or in your town. Ask her questions about herself, what her hobbies are, what she likes to do in her spare time, how her school work is going. That way, she will be doing most of the talking, and also people usually like people who seem interested in hearing things about their lives. You can even practice some things to say to her while you are alone in your room at home and that way you might be more comfortable with it.

  • 7 years ago

    It can be very difficult to get comfortable talking to a new girl or woman. You do need to take things slowly and let the relationship and conversation evolve. Talk to her about school, sports, music, movies, books, hobbies, special interests, friends, family, pets, events that are happening around you or in your town. Ask her questions about herself, what her hobbies are, what she likes to do in her spare time, how her school work is going. That way, she will be doing most of the talking, and also people usually like people who seem interested in hearing things about their lives. You can even practice some things to say to her while you are alone in your room at home and that way you might be more comfortable with it.

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    talk to a lot of women, attracted or not, some will be nice, some will be idiots, some will like you, some will think you are an idiot..you will learn to take people and talking to one particular will not appear like a such big thing

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