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Having a hard time deciding to leave him..any advice?

My relationship with my boyfriend is suffering. I don't feel loved, appreciated or desired. I really thought he was the one. He's the first man to meet my kids and has treated my daughter as his own. But when I talk to him about how I feel nothing ever changes. I'm tired of the heartache and tears. But I'm having such a difficult time walking away.

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  • 7 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    You have a one sided relationship here. That is never going to change no matter how long you hold on hoping it gets better. It usually takes a year or two together to determine if a relationship is truly going to last, and you are simply finding out that yours isn't meant to be.

    Walking away from someone you love is the most difficult thing to do, but sometimes you have to listen to your head instead of your heart. By staying you seem to be prolonging the inevitable and the longer your daughter is accustomed to him being in her life, the harder it is going to be for her as well.

    As difficult as it is going to be, please find the strength to do what is right for everyone involved.

  • Blunt
    Lv 7
    7 years ago

    Youc can't have both ways. Either stay and STHU or butt out of you are "oh-so-unhappy". Whining is not going to make you feel loved and desired. Fix the situation already!

    What really is happening here is that you don't want to be alone.

  • RAVEN
    Lv 7
    7 years ago

    so your daughter is going to grow up thinking a relationship is being uhnappy, not loved, or appreciated?

    way to go

    if you cant get out for your own happiness, you should for your childrens

  • 7 years ago

    leave. there done. now go do it.

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