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Broke up. but she comes back after 2 days?

We know eachother for 7 months.She is 17 im 19 She started contacting me,but wanted to stay friends.This last month things changed a bit. we started to flirt sending kisses,made future plans started calling eachother pet names(she never calls anyone pet names,she is axtualy kinda indepentent,but at the same time unsure girl). And even met twice. Everything started to grow. Then suddnelly she started to slowly distance herslef.and after a cold week. She said that i should stop calling her pet name.everything turned 180 degrees. She was a stranger. And a worst of all she started to brag about how she is friends with a one guy.

About that guy

He is 15 a complete wuss and has no friends.but a real nice guy.he is scared of me.

So i got more angry and next day I told her we were over. She just texted

"Ok bye :D" I was crushed,but kept on moving because,i have a job and other problems.

So 2 days later,she texts me a long message begging for forgiveness and that she was dumb and stupid for what she did.she asked for forgiveness.

I forgave her,but also said that i dont want alything else with her anymore. She asked why,and I said that Im not interested in being hurt again.

She then texted me something like this.

"Can you please wait before you take this decision?Give me a month to fix my life and problems and to understand my feelings for you. And then I will tell if im ready to be in relationship with you. Okay please??"

I said ok,but inside myself im still moving on!

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  • Bean
    Lv 5
    6 years ago

    Yeah, you should keep moving on, you seem like a sane person and you're doing the right thing. Many people blame their messy lives when they screw up but common sense has nothing to do with ones messy life. And she was very rude and immature when she did what she did.

    Good luck

  • 6 years ago

    Hmmm dats nature in her age and what u did is ryt.... keep moving... she really needs time to realise and get matured... All the best

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