why do women hate each other so much?

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I noticed this type of behavior as a child with the girls my age I used to play with. Growing up wasn't easy because I went through a lot of abuse, and used to get picked on by my teachers and the kids. The females hated me and the boys were intimidated by me. Now that I am older, I finally understood what the problem was and that was jealousy. Why do people waist their time with jealousy? And create some ignorant assumption that fair looking women are stupid? People believe pretty women have it made easy and that is nothing but a lie! Still till this day I get crap from people because of that fact and that I don't allow anyone to take advantage of me. I praise God for the wisdom he blessed me with! But, why commit verbal murder? You know nothing of what that person is going through, like myself, and you are doing nothing but destroying dreams and aspirations like what happened with myself. I am close to breaking down spiritually because of this madness. And , when I am close to the finish line there is some verbal murder awaiting to happen. Yes, people tell me to not let it bother me, but when it has been happening through out my life, I have my breaking point just like everybody else. This sucks that I have to rely on the internet to answer my questions because I have to freaking family to comfort me.

Aubrey Conkling · Accepted Answer

That's a great philosophical inquiry. Comparing the title of you question, to the body of your paragraph. I'm concluding that the person(s) who you're stressing about, is(are) female. And you sort of went on a tangent intertwining that(those) individual(s), with other supporting stressers to support your overall stress situation. And near the end of your description, you've pretty much stated your emotional reserves are near depleted.

I don't know why women rival each other. And I don't know why the vast majority of women plot behind others back. I can theorize my countries culture, and attempt a logical conclusion which might vaguely assess what our country expects from females. But, I simply don't know. To say the least, it's complicated.

I've worked with some individual with a really distorted sense of priorities. Those individuals boasted about being complete asswholes. And openly admit to reading books on how to become a bigger prick in life. They love it because it makes them happier. I think jealousy is a powerful tool within that logic. That's my assumption anyway. Their insecurities which may overwhelm them, so they try to cope by implementing tools around them to deflaite whomever they are insecure towards.

I can relate to you on a few different levels. I'm not religious, so I don't seek wisdom from whomever I might pray to. But I did grow up in a very red-neck region. Unfortunately, I've always been the pretty boy, and my parents gave me a girly name (Aubrey). So I got made fun of a lot as a kid. (Gay or they assumed I must be stupid like, "Blue Steel".) I'm sharing that with you because I can remember times in my late childhood and early adulthood, that I would get extremely depressed because of bullying type techniques from people. There's no easy way to deal with it, but as I got older. I simply stopped caring about what people thought of me.

I hope I helped.

Anonymous · Answer

I can't say never been around females so I have no clue!! I did hear from some people that girls were mentally unstable.. and should be out of this world I hope it's false.

Anonymous · Answer

Relax hun. Sticks and Stones. Most people are mongs. Don't listen to mongs

Not · Answer

Women are rivals to get the best male partner. Therefor, they trample on each other. 
Thank you for sharing your insight.

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