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Relationship Advice..I'm 27 he's 45?
I got a question about dating well i met about a year ago met in person about 7 months ago haven't met again yet... he is 45 he has been married before has 3 kids he always working or so he says we text everyday..but still it's not the same as talking over the phone i have never been introduced to his children or anything not have i talked to any of his family members he has met my mom and talked to her over the phone...I feel confused he seems like a nice guy he took me to dinner and never asked for sex he also has paid my phone bill once and again never asked for sex...should i keep on with this relationship or move on???? as well as the age difference there is a race difference I'm black as you can tell and he is a white man..not that, it matters. i truly do care for him but on another note 7 months your heart kind of wears weary.I feel like i am wasting my time and that instead of us getting closer we are going different directions we do however live in different states.. I just need some answers thanks.
3 Answers
- 6 years agoFavorite Answer
I'm sorry, but from all the details, it seems like he is still married, and is keeping this from his wife. Anytime there is this one way relationship, see, you have nothing to hide. He can talk to your mom, tell you what you want to hear, and keep his life separate, he's hiding something. I know, I did it once when I was younger. He has a whole other life that you are not part of, and he can't let you see or talk to anyone in it. It does seem like he is courting you like a gentleman, but he can't have you interacting with his actual life. You need to prepare to move on, and then let him know, either he opens up or it's over.
- ?Lv 76 years ago
I would suggest move on ---- he is not interested ----- texting is lame and you should be in contact every day IM or Skype something that lets you have a conversation ---- you are both adults so your ages don't matter ---- distance does not matter if you care for each other ----- race does not matter ---- after 7 months you would know if you want to be with him the rest of your life or not and its clearly not so remain friends if you wish and get on with your life
- 6 years ago
Thank you both for these answers i kinda felt in my heart he was married.. and yes he doesn't let me know anything about his personal life you both answered so good it's hard to choose a best answer right yet
