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help tight boyfriend dont spend money?
My bf n i have been together for 2 years and he doesnt spoil me with flowers or just little things hes never taken me to dinner or holidays or a weekend away all of my other friends get spoilt with gifts not that money is everything but im so puzzled why he dont treat me when i spoil him rotten im feeling really down so whats ur point of view he works he also asks his aunty or nanna for money n he makes a lot of money
3 Answers
- 6 years ago
Stop being so materialistic. My partner doesn't buy me flowers or chocolate. Hell, in the six and a half years we have been together we have seen one movie (that his mum paid for because we done some work for her) been out to dinner once (with his family, so that probably wouldn't count either) and i can count the amount of time he's given me flowers with my ears. He hasn't brought me an anniversary present in half a decade... And i couldn't be happier! Does he love you? Do you love him (not his income)? Is he honest? Is he faithful? If you can answer yes to these four questions, i don't think flowers are guna make the "big difference" you think they are. Granted a surprise every now and then is nice, but if he starts spoiling you all the time, you won't appreciate it as much.
Regards, The Captain
- LadyMarissaLv 76 years ago
Money does NOT make a boyfriend!!! IF he's good to you & treats you with love & respect, that's worth ALL the money in the world!!! I don't know what you call making a "lot of money"; but, IF he indeed does make a lot of money & still needs to borrow from his family, that tells me that he does NOT handle his money very well!!! The one thing that I can tell you is...IF he's cheap with his money now...he will be even cheaper IF you 2 ever get married!!! IF it bothers you now...it's going to bother you more when you 2 finally get married!!!
- 6 years ago
Maybe he is saving for the future. Stop spoiling him and save for yours. Don't pay for anything for him, pay equally.
