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Some advice please?
So I had a date with a guy and stupidly slept with him after one to many glasses of wine.
It wasn't awkward the next day, he stayed for breakfast ... Had a shower and hung around until after 11am after getting up at 8am.
We had a cuddle on the sofa and he kissed me goodbye. Said he would call me.
Just wondering if anyone thinks I have messed up the chances of seeing him again by sleeping with him ?
Or how long should I wait to ask if he wants to see me again ?
All advice welcome :)
3 Answers
- 6 years agoFavorite Answer
Well, I think you should wait a few days then ask him if he wants to go on another date or something. I don't think you messed up by sleeping together because it wasn't awkward and he hung around for quite a bit so good luck :)
- 6 years ago
I really don't think you did anything wrong. It sounds like he wants a deep intimate relationship and already cares about you. I wouldn't recommend sleeping with him at the end of every date as he then could just be using you. To not seem pushy or clingy then I wouldn't initiate contact with him until at least 24 hours. He said he would call you so I hope he does. If he doesn't then at least you got an amazing experience and can learn from your "mistake" of sleeping with him on the first date. No harm done though - everything is a learning experience. Please answer my newest question - much appreciation. GL!
- FARGOLv 46 years ago
Don't be clingy. I don't think you messed up, but just see what his next move will be. Last thing a guy wants is a bunch of texts or messes. Dump him after the first sign of disrespect. Gl.