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Why do I get haters especially women?
i am a woman myself and have noticed in the uk that women doesn't treat me well. They do at the beginning but then their true colours comes out.
They start talking behind my back and distance themselves or stab me on the back. To the point I started to doubt myself. I am quiet sociable and diplomatic woman. I am very sympathetic and can appear soft at times. I do however say my opinion firmly and is not afraid of anything.
I make a lot of friends but they just don't last and the reason is always them try to stop me from doing something I like and when I do they become distance and start hating and call me unfaithful. So we don't last because they stop caring. And I just let it be.
I just don't understand why other women in general doesn't like me lol and they just hate on me
I have realised this jus happens mainly in the uk where I have to live.
Any advice ?
3 Answers
- ♠ Merlin ♠Lv 76 years ago
"I make a lot of friends but they just don't last"
" uk that women doesn't treat me well. They do at the beginning but then their true colours comes out"
"I just don't understand why other women in general doesn't like me lol and they just hate on me "
3 options
1 - uk women are ALL ******* (i myself am Scottish, so would be included in that)
2 - its you who needs to take a good long look at yourself
3 - you have a victim complex
i have lived all over the UK, and never encountered this, i am outspoken and stand my ground, in my job i would have certainly have experience if this were the phenomenon you make it to be
as "everyone" talks about you and "hates" you i think you need to look closer to home for the reason this is happening
of course the UK has its share of haters
show me a country that doesnt
but to alienate every female you come across, there HAS to be a reason
- 6 years ago
I know how it feels.Im a very social women as well and i can be soft most of the times. You can't continue to allow these people to walk all over you though.there comes a time in our lives where we gotta hold our head high and hold our middle finngers up, and just let em hate.😘😉
- Anonymous6 years ago
You are the common denominator. It is unlikely they are all jealous haters.
As for it mainly happening in the UK.... well duuuh. It's where you live. Spend a long time somewhere else and you'll be losing friends there too.
You mention that you are sympathetic? You use that word, but I do not think it means what you think it means. I think your are full of faux-modesty and very ego-centric.
"I make a lot of friends." No. No you don't. Those are acquaintances.
"I am very sympathetic." No, I don't think so.
"I can appear soft." Maybe. But when they see the real you.....
"always them try to stop me from doing something I like" grow up. Life's not fair and not many people always get what they want.
"lol" I wouldn't. Perhaps if you stopped playing mind games you would realise how sad that is.
