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why am I getting much more attention after losing weight? theae are femles I never met,. why do girls stare during the break of conversation?

basically I used to be chubby and I've lost weight. I notice people treat me different. Keep in mind these people didn't know I was chunky before. I'll go to class. I'm in college and girls will stare @ me and one even turned until I sit down. I pretend not to notice and she's done this since the first day. She has this blank expression. She has done this at least 2 or 3 times. I even had a girl offered me a ride. I barely talked to her. She started talking to me about my class I guess she overhead me. She said she's on the way there for class and she parked her car by the building. I was approached by this girl after class and she said she was studying the same thing. Basically in a break during our conversation, she would stare. I make a comment on about the program for our major and she goes "I don't know" and stares/smiles. It's kind of weird. People that have known me have said I look different. My face is skinnier. One even made a joke about how I can get a gf now.

This girl approached me after class and inquired about what program I'm going to bec. She's majoring in the same. So we're talking and I make a comment about the program and she goes "Idk" and smiles stares just standing there...

it's like she wanted to divert from our conversation about the program to wanting something more personal,,,weird to stare during a break in a conversation

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  • 6 years ago
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    Girls are just friendly sometimes, but they are checking you and perhaps think you are cute. However, if there is no smile they it is just because people naturally turn when someone walks in the class.

  • mike t
    Lv 6
    6 years ago

    Perhaps because of your change in body size/build they have noticed a new you and are thinking you might be worth someone getting to know better.

    It's possible they have always had respect for you, but we're never willing to make a move because of your size for fear of mock or ridicule from their peers.

    ( Crazy U know because it's all about what comes from within, respect, sense of humour, trust, honesty and love that count, not the outer s" shell " or body that holds them.)

    How you choose to proceed is up to you, but I believe you are getting the come on to see how good a potential partner you are or could be.

    If you like her, go for it but be honest and no bulls/*t.

  • Anonymous
    6 years ago

    Mike t, I said I never met these girls before. They don't know I was fat before.

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