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After we broke up she brags about how great everything is.why?

We have been texting for half year now. She always pushed me away. But when i started to move on she always came back flirting and apologizing. Always excuses.like im not ready for relationship.im scared of relationship. And month ago she said she never wanted relationship with me. So i said its over and stopped contacting.but after few days she came back begging and apologizing.and asking me to give her a month to work things out in her life so she can decide if she wants to be with me. I forgave her but said that i can wait but i wont guarantee that i will change my mind. She flirted heavily for few days.but when i started to show interest back she became cold and. Pushed me away. That was the last drop.

I deleted her number and started to search for other girls. And i meet an really interesting girl from same school my ex was. We started texting. Now yesterday my ex texted me asking if im ignoring her.but i just gave her casual answers.Then She asked me about new girl im contacting with(she somehow heard) i said "were doing great :)"

And she got mad. Later her friend texted me asking why she is crying and smashing dishes.but i said i dont know and dont really care anymore.(i think her friend only texted to manipulate saying that my ex do care about me and blah blah!)

So next morning all i see on my exs social networks is how she says that everything is great and perfect. It made me a bit confused that she cried yesterday and now she is so happy.. she is 16 btw and im 18

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  • 6 years ago
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    Its obvious. It is undeniably flattering knowing someone finds you attractive. She was using you as an ego boost. She's probably told her friends how someone older is interested in her. Young girls consider it a high honor when someone older is interested in them. But, you're not doing that anymore and moved on. She basically knows she's last seasons model and is jealous of the attention you're giving to another girl. Her friends will contact you to guilt you and convert you to give her another chance.

    But, why is she bragging about things? She obviously doesn't want you to know how you're negatively impacting her life. Would you want your ex to know you're not over them? No. You want them to believe you're better without that ****.

    Honestly, she's still young. Probably too young for you. Even though it doesn't seem so there's a big difference physically, emotionally and mentally between a 16 and 18 year old. At 16 most girls will want boyfriends because its glorified, companionship (without the sex) and to impress their own friends. At 18 they will have ****, be more sane and fair in the relationship dynamic and be interested in sex.

    Source(s): Was a 16 year old girl. Drama was great as long as you were in the audience and not a participant.
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