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Bf won't stop lying &thinks it's no big deal. Poll. Help please?
POLL:
I'm doing this to show my boyfriend.
Does anyone think it's okay to lie to someone you love over and over again? Even if you don't think what you're lying about is a big deal, but you know the person you're lying to would react badly to what you're hiding.
My boyfriend lies about doing drugs all the time. We are both supposed to be in recovery from heroin addiction. He swears he thinks it's not a big deal to take all kinda of other drugs. Including, molly(MDMA) , Xanax, and adderal. He also drinks more alcohol than your average person and think it's okay.
He has lied about taking drugs cause he thinks it's okay since is not our drug of choice(heroin). He has also lied/hidden talking to a girl from me, and had lied about other thingS.
He says he thinks he's done nothing wrong. He says it's not a big deal so it's ok that he lied to me. He also tries saying that it's not lying if I didn't ask him specifically "did you do this on this day?" Type of questions.
Please give your opinions so we can review them together
4 Answers
- ?Lv 76 years ago
Then show him it's a big deal and tell ihm that if he lies then you can't trust him at all. And you should get away form a druggie anyway if he's not willing to try and get some help for his addiction, even just marijuana or beer, especially if this is a major cause of lying.
- ♠ Merlin ♠Lv 76 years ago
addicts ALWAYS lie, and believe the lies themselves
they can justify ANYTHING in their mind
and that is the difference between an addict (your boyfriend) and a recovering addict (you)
in your shoes? i would have to question carrying on this relationship
you apparently have come through addiction, you have grown and decided to make a real go of life in general
he just changed one substance for a host of others
dont let him drag you back down, it must have taken terrific courage to do achieve what you have
he has NO intentions of becoming a clean productive member of society, choosing drugs/pills & drink over self respect
is this really what you want for your life?
- MoLv 76 years ago
Oh sweetie......this guy is a loser......find a nice guy.....In my experience drug-users always tend to lie.
Tell it's over and you can't trust him ....you can't do it any more. How would he like it if you kept lying to him?
Mo
