my husband does not want to celebrate the new year! im so mad, what can i do?

He promised me days ago we will go to my aunts' and celebrate there with relatives, now he changed his mind and wants to stay home instead because he still has to work today and will be tired tonight when he gets home. He said we will only cook supper then thats it, we are going to sleep tonight listening to neighbors celebrating, then tomorrow he will sleep all day like he always do. Im so furious right now, i dont know what to do with my anger.

He said we will go to my aunts only if they will pick us up. I cant make thay demand from my relatives. What can i do? What should i do? We have 2 kids, it pains me to see them staying at home and not celebrating while everyone around us does.