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He told me he likes me but he ignores me?
Ok so I work with a guy who thinks its awesome tht I like him because I'm cute and etc (his words) he told me that if I got him a phone he'd gladly text me. We texted one night straight on but haven't since, I don't get many texts from him and when I text him i normally don't get a reply. He always has a reason as to why he can't talk and then he won't. He says he likes me but he constantly ignores my texts and its getting to the point where I'm so depressed because he knows I'm crazy about him an he knows I care for him deeply, this is driving me crazy
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- ?Lv 76 years ago
Men at times are hard to figure out. I wouldn't do anything. If he's a strong man, he'll eventually take the initiative.
Could you possibly be making dating choices mainly based upon whether someone likes you and you like them? Unfortunately this approach to dating, used by most people, usually leads to a broken heart.
May I suggest that the first question to ask yourself when considering whether or not to date someone is, “Is this person a strong person?” If they’re not, no matter how much you like them, how much they like you, or how “cute” or “hot” they are, - please don’t date them. A strong person has good character (honesty, integrity, trustworthiness), displays a positive attitude (cheerful, caring, friendly, forgiving, helpful, and respectful), fulfills their responsibilities (for handling pains in a positive way, for always trying to make a good choice, for taking care of themselves, for serving others), gives their best effort, and demonstrates self-control (of their body, anger, tongue and money).
My suggestion is that you put in the effort necessary to become a strong person (if you’re not already), forget about this guy unless he’s a strong person, and eventually look for this type of guy (otherwise you are setting yourself up for a broken heart). Unfortunately this type of man is difficult to find – but save yourself the heartache and don’t settle for less.
(Please remember that you eventually want a 50 or 60 year marriage - not a 5 or 10 year marriage.)
Hope this helps!
Source(s): True Love Lasts - written with a character emphasis for teens through young adults (new), Straight Talk About Teen Dating - written with a Christian emphasis for ages 13-19, Straight Talk About Dating - written with a Christian emphasis for ages 20 and up - Anonymous6 years ago
Speaking from experience and having the same thing happen to me literally I say dump this dude. You are so much better than that. It will hurt but you have to let it go. If it makes you feel better tell this guy how you feel and hold nothing back. I did and I feel much better. Don't contact him no matter what even if you have friends in common just don't do it. Good luck
- 6 years ago
He's playing hard to get...so what do you do now? Play him at HES own game you leave him and do not text him until he texts you and maybe respond sometimes if uou feel like it...It will drive him crazy
Source(s): Myself - Anonymous6 years ago
Well you aint showing that puss girl you gotta work 4 it
