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how not to freak out feeling emotional with my boyfriend when he feels emotional as well?

How do I suppress the urge to pretend I'm cool when I am not?

I've always been career orientated, always do and think my own way and I'm not used to have a boyfriend who's sweet loving and caring and tells me every day and night that I'm the most amazing girl he ever squeezed and that he's proud to be my man every time he does I think that's the most adorable thing someone told me and start feeling touched and therefore keep quiet because I want to keep cool and collected (when instead I'd tell him "Ooooooooh honey that's so cute of you " and read him poetry) because he overwhelms me with sweetness! Even if I'm pretty romantic myself wrote him poetry,love letters,posters, organized indoors pic nics,moonlit drives,treasure hunts, made him a hard rock cd, gave him a boys night in kit with beer, videogames, and pizza, did all the kinky stuff but when he is the one doing it i freak out, why and how to stop it?

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  • 6 years ago
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    Why is probably because you think you don't deserve such 'fairylike attention and romance'. I think you should make a self re-orientation and start seeing yourself as someone of high value. High enough to be the 'most adorable person' to someone. By writing him poetry, love letters you're unconsciously pulling at the threads of his heart, and being human, it is normal of him to get 'vulnerable' and 'soft' with you. You made him fall in love with you and want you endlessly now don't shatter what you have. It's rare to have a sincere mutual romance these days

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