how can I change my mindset about women?

When you are really ready, you will. To FORCE yourself, won't last. As use as you exhaust yourself,your true nature will come out and someone usually get hurt or used. If you're not ready... YOU'RE NOT READY. So for now, just PRACTICE what you want to be.

BECOMING POPULAR, BUILDING SELF CONFIDENCE REQUIRE PRACTICE.

PRACTICE is just a way to LEARN to get better.

(High School / College / New Town / New Job)

Most guys who care WAY TOO MUCH, usually project or develop insecurities in themselves.

This does not Impress or Capture Women's Interest or Attention.

Always use Smiles, Humor and Compliments to approach people.

USE SMILES (to make them relax),

USE HUMOR (to make them Smile or Laugh),

USE COMPLIMENTS (to make them feel good about themselves

when they are around you)

All this may sound scary to you,

but aren't you already scared anyway…

And probably sick of being YOU. (the way you are)

CHANGE will Always be uncomfortable…

until it becomes the way you do things.

Practice and try this out:

Start by NOT making a big deal out of it. You'll only worry yourself.

SMILE at all the girls. "ALL" THE GIRLS.

Say "Hi" to some or as many as possible. Don't pick and choose who you say "Hi" too, because some of them have other friends that you will like and they could do the introductions

for you at some point.

Just like Sports... PRACTICE being popular.

Keep in mind and REMEMBER--Handsome, Beautiful or Butt Ugly has

"NOTHING" to do with PRACTICE.

Smile. Say "Hi". Tell them your name, ask them theirs, compliment them on something you like about Them,

BEFORE you let them say their name.

It plays out like this.

You introduce yourself and compliment (the stranger) right away without letting them say their name. In case They were considering rejecting you, They now have a smile on Their face because of the compliment. You just need to keep it there.

Then say... "I'm sorry, what was your name?" while still smiling.

Ask her complimentary questions or advice about something simple. (Have Question(s) Ready) Chic flicks and magazines Girls read, are two good sources for conversational topics.

Example: One of the weakest qualities guys have with women is, the ability to hold a conversation. The secret to a conversation is asking a fun and simple question that a girl would enjoy answering. Example: "I like your fingernail color. What color is that?" She says: "Ocean Spray Blue." You reply: "I knew you were going to do that. As a guy I would have said "a light shade of blue", but women always 'detail' their colors. Do girls get 'special training" on colors or what?" She'll giggle and give you an answer. Ask her to name another color or Why is it girls do that? Now you have her in a conversation. She is enjoying a guy enjoying her company.

PRACTICE this over and over. It's only scary the first 3 or 4 times. Be nice and conversational to ALL the girls. Even plain girls have feeling and attractive friends, neighbors or cousins.

Be Respectful, you'll be remembered better.

Develop Popularity And The Girl You Are Looking For

Will Probably Find You.

If you don't start PRACTICING this now, you will lose out on many other opportunities (girls) in the future.

Players call it "Having Game."

REMEMBER--Handsome, Beautiful or Butt Ugly has

"NOTHING" to do with PRACTICE.

Because its only practice... it doesn't matter if you strike out over and over again.

Also, if you get rejected 100,000 times.

There is still a BILLION girls you haven't met... YET!!!!!

and Visa Versa, girls that haven't met you.