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Why she didn't like me..... I don't get it... Girls.... why would you do this to a guy you approach first?

So I met this random girl who approached me at the bus stop and she asked personal questions and stuff.

I was answering but seemed to be quite shy/nervous.

After some time the bus came and she said,"Bye" and left with her friend.

After 2 weeks, I was at the shopping centre and a man pat on my back and said , " She want's to talk to ya" and it was the girl.

She talked to me and stuff; looked very happy when she saw me. She was talking about how she loved to party and stuff and didn't want to study.

I advised her to finish school and she was reluctant about it. Then I talked about her goals and she said she was happy.

Just before the bus came I asked for her number. She said she didn't have a phone and told we would see each other again.

SHE DIDN'T OFFER ANY OTHER CONTACT.

When I got on the bus I saw her STARE at me till I could see her NO MORE.

what's up with this girl??

I NEVER SAW HER AGAIN.

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  • 6 years ago
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    Dude!!!!! U asked her about her goals d told her to stay in school??? Dont u watch tv!

    Sweetheart thats not what girls want to hear, she wanted u to be the cool guy her dad would hate which would make her like u more....

    But in reality she wanted u to talk about something interesting and fun she could connect with u on and u totaly sounded like she bumped into her own dad while she was skipping school! If that was me id be regretting ever thinking u were cute!

    And u had a second shot to fix it in the store and you blew it!

    Girls arnt the problem... Its your subject of interest... No girl want to date her principal from school who sounds like her father with zack effron's face (dont know how to spell his name)

    Source(s): Dont mean to sound so harsh
  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    I think you're generalizing a bit too much. I know tons of white guys that date black girls (I like black girls as well ;D) and of course in order to date someone, approaching them will be the first step. Everyone can be compatible when it comes to dating, too. It doesn't matter if you're black, white, anything. Anyone can be compatible. Their ethnicity hardly matters and doesn't change the fact that they could be compatible or might not be compatible together. If you ask me, ethnicity hardly plays a part in it. It's just a matter whether or not the person is attracted to you. You and your friend have been friends for a very long time too so that plays a part in your relationship with him specifically and you already said that you didn't want to date him so obviously that plays a part in your relationship with him. As for all of these guys looking at you but not approaching you, it's probably just because they didn't want to (not saying that to insult you). Race probably didn't really matter to them. They probably just didn't want to approach you for whatever reason or maybe felt too nervous to or something. They also could've been shy. You're generalizing way too much with this, honestly. You're also jumping to conclusions a bit. Interracial relationships have actually started becoming much more common as well so that further proves my point. It could just be your city too and the people there while in other cities, it could be much different and you'd see tons of white men going out with black women.

  • 6 years ago

    Confusing, she is obviously attracted to you and wants to be playfull. She can be shy and wants you to ask her first and more for contact OR she is just flirting and wants to play with your mind.. and its working. Maybe it difficult but forget her, and next time you see her, dont pay much attention to her and if its still bothering you, ask her for email or something. If she refuses she is just playing and you shouldnt let her.

  • 6 years ago

    Maybe she was just being friendly? Maybe she fully expected to see you again but something else has happened in her life that means she has had to move away, or not go out as much.

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  • 6 years ago

    Either she wants to take it really slow, or she was bored that day and she just wanted to talk.

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