How Do I Talk To A Shy Exchange Student?

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I'm a freshman in college and there is a girl from Australia in one of my classes. I've only been able to talk to her once, and she was very nice and I even walked her back to her dorm and she said "See you in class" with a smile. That's been about a week ago, and she will smile back at me in class, but I haven't been able to talk to her since. She is really hard to catch after class, and she always seems to be in a hurry. I just want to be friendly is all. She seems to keep to herself mostly, but I'd really like to talk to her. I would like to ask her to dinner, or to show her around town more, but she seems distant. I don't want to stalk her, or come off as a creep, but I like her, and I'd like to get to know her better, and be her friend. How can I approach her without being too intrusive? What is a good way to break the ice?

Athena · Answer

You walked her all the way back to her dorm, she said, "see you in class," and you waited a WHOLE FRIGGING WEEK to decide to talk to her again ????????

YOU BROKE THE ICE Casanova.  You talked in a non-threatening environment, all the way back "home" AND she let you know you were on the right track.  Good grief guy what exactly is your problem ???

Make a date.  A casual after class, or early evening, on campus type date.  Grab a cup of coffee, or sandwich, that is the next logical step.

Of course, given the week you waited you are almost back on square one.

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How Do I Talk To A Shy Exchange Student?

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