I can pull women at the bar when we are drunk, but I'm terrified of woman sober? how to approach in a non threatening way in everyday places?

To get to know a girl in everyday places, I advise not going for the date straight away.

We can be a little intimidated too when we get asked out in a setting that it isn't expected like the bar.

Introduce yourself to the girl like you would if you were trying to make a new guy friend. Still be a little flirty but aim to make her acquaintance and get some form of contact rather than straight up trying to pull her.

Once you have the contact and she agrees to meet up with you again, that's when you try full date mode.

Alcohol has been described as a "Social lubricant". It reduces inhibitions and gives both Men and Woymn "Liquid Courage". In many States in the US Men who have Sex with a Woman who is under the influence has committed Rape. Check on the State where you reside. It is irrelevant what you believe it is what the law states. Men who engage in sex under such circumstances are playing legal Russian Roulette. And have no excuses for their gross stupidity. You can search and find a Sexual Consent form. And this issue should be raised with a prospective Sex Partner before you become intimate. If Woymn believe that this kills spontaneity and romance. Blame it on your Feminist Sisters and Feminist Governance. You should discuss what happens if...? And if she consents have her sign a form and have witnesses sing it as well. Get their contact information. The Legal Standard is "Reasonable Doubt". Do you have thousands of Dollars to spend on Lawyer's fees? A Woman can remove consent legally at any point in intimacy. Any point. Men have no legal rights except to remain Silent. This is how far it has come in the US. Men who refuse to face reality are fools.

Being presentable (looking like a bum isn't nice for anyone), not calling her pet names and not using any sexual innuendo. Just be nice and say hello and chances are she'll be just as polite to you

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