I m intimidated by this girl I m dating. I need some help?

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Ok, so I m 40 and she s 43. I find her incredible and I ve told her. We ve been on three dates. We ve texted for the pass month. Seems it s a lot easier to text her than to talk to her in person.

She told me she likes me and enjoys our dates. We both feel that the texting is more fun than the dates even though we ve had fun.

I need to know how to be more interesting when we are in person. She s easy to be with and very intelligent.

She told me she does not have the butterflies yet I do. But she wants to see what will happen with time. I ve been in 2 10 years relationships and I ve lost the touch of dating.

Help?

Paka · Answer

Well first and foremost, STOP STRESSING. Also tone down on the texting and just take her out. The best advice I could offer to you to become more interesting to her if you're at a loss is to break out of your comfort zone and try something new and fresh to you both. Something that's fun but not tiring or hard on the body. Find out more about what she likes, hasn't done yet that you could see yourself possibly enjoy doing as well. But if you don't like the activity that much it's still ok because you want her and want her to want you. So spending time with her should make up for that. Most importantly, go with the flow and then go with what your heart is telling you. Also keep in mind that women are attracted to confident, modest and humble men not cocky arrogant, a**holes lol. So be sure of yourself that you're a good guy for her to be with and not too good for you. But ask yourself if becoming a couple is worth possibly ruining the gained friendship that you already have or not. Aloha

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