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My girlfriend was making plans to go out on a date with a customer she served/waited on, at her job.?
I m 24 & my girlfriend is 21. We have been dating for about 8 months now, and I recently discovered that she was contemplating going out on a date with a customer she met while working. Okay, this is how it started. I was at work when i decided to open the web browser on my phone while on break, her facebook profile was still logged in on my phone, she was currently messaging her mother saying that she was in a "pickle" and couldn t decide on whether or not she should go out on a date with him, but she said she was probably going to either way, she was also deleting the messages as fast as she was sending them to be sure that I didn t see them, well, I did. So I immediately call her, and ask her to explain herself, and she replies with..."Some guy asked me on a date." Then I said "Yeah, I know." and then she said "Yeah so I told him I had a boyfriend." Then I said "Go home, your home." and she said "But it was interesting to be asked out on a date again, but I still told him no." Then I say "I saw everything...you re not lying out of this one." and she says "My mom will come get me, and I guess I m not in a pickle anymore." So then I say "I hope it was worth it." and she replies "Whateva I didn t do anything besides joke with my mom, you wanna breakup with me over it fine, im with my mom like you want, now you can do whatever you want with whoever you want." So then I ignore her phone calls & texts like "I am sick thinking about being without you." So she tells me she s sorry
She tells me that she wants to be with me, and that it's killing her being away from me. So I tell her to explain herself. And she says..." I guess I'll start from the beginning, today at work I waited on a table and a man asked me on a date. I told him I was in a relationship for almost a year now, and things were good. He said he was going to be back again someday to see if I still had that boyfriend...didn't think much of it but when I was rereading our messages today I realized that I am
"Really sad. He gave me his number & said to call me if if you change your mind. The problem is that I even considered thinking about calling, but now in this hour I hate myself." and I asked "Why were you considering calling him?" she says " Because if im so sad and not happy why am I staying around, but the truth is im not sad or unhappy. I've been on my period all week and of course a girls emotions are off the wall I am in love with you and I never doubt that. This night has shown me much."
So then we talk about it a little more, and im upset so I just say "Im done, goodnight." she says " Whatever fine, goodnight, I got you." Then 3 hours later she text " baby come get me." Well, comes to find out, the next day i agree to come over and talk with her, shes on facebook and she scrools thru and i see where she messaged a guy, but it was like 3 messages, and she deleted the rest obviously, but he was texing her like, i miss your pretty ***....and guess what? The time in which they star
ted talking, was the same time she told me Goodnight, I got you.".......In closing, shes trying to convince me that she loves me & still wants to marry me. What should I do? Also, It may be worth to mention that when she gets really angry at me, shell punch me in the face. This has happened on four different occasions, and I told her I dont accept that, but she keeps on.
I love her, but damn.
3 Answers
- 6 years ago
UHHHHH I'm pretty sure she wasn't about to cheat. I mean THE LAST person I would tell about my cheating plans is my mother. My mom and I, however, joke about this stuff all the time. And the fact that you said "she was gonna go either way" makes me think that she was talking about work. Rejecting a guy at the place you work is scary because they can get you fired/ stalk you easily. I think she was just talking to her mom about a weirdo who asked her out and was making a few jokes in the process.
Text and chat convos can be really hard to interpret if you're not the one involved. I'm sure she was joking. I mean if she was really gonna cheat, she wouldn't have told her mom. Her friends maybe, but definitely not her mom.
- TomLv 76 years ago
What's your question? She was clearly entertaining the idea of cheating on you, and this was probably not the first time. She feels no remorse over what she did - only that she got caught. She minimized her actions and deflected her behaviour onto YOU - making it seem like there was something wrong with you for breaking up for her over "joking" with her mom about this date. She sounds like a lousy person and a lousy girlfriend. Consider yourself better off now.
