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he said he doesnt want a relationship?
so this guy ive been talking to i began to like. we text a lot. he would send me kissy faces, he would say good morning all the time. say how badly he wants to cuddle or how badly he wants to see me and what not and weve never kissed before. weve hungout only once alone and just watched movies. he stopped texting me for about 3 days and he finally messaged me over facebook saying, " i don't want to sound like an asshole but it sorta seems like you're getting feeeeeelingz 4 me but low key I'm not trying to get into anything serious with anyone. .. I've kinda been m.i.a. cuz i don't want you to get attached to me or start to fall for me or something.You're sweet asf tho and ****** awesome & i still wanna hang out obviii but i just don't want anything like that if you know what i mean /.\. why would he say all those things and then randomly come out to me like that. it kind of hurt. is there a way i can get him to want to "commit"? I dont understand this.
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- ?Lv 76 years ago
Yeah, I can certainly understand why you are hurt. I would be too.
I don't think a lot of people (guys) really understand that when you talk flirty, say good morning all the time, and cuddle with someone that can make a girl emotional. Heck, that can make some guys emotional.
Honestly, I think I would answer him and say "truthfully, I feel like I've been a bit lead on by your actions (and list them)." Tell him they were confusing. You gotta communicate with someone if you want them in your life, so do it and see what he says. And I would be very hesitant if I were you, to get involved with him with your heart until this clears up. Normally when a guy tells you he doesn't want a relationship, he means it. And I learned that the hard way -- by getting hurt because I didn't listen.
- ?Lv 76 years ago
Seems like he just wants to be friends only and he is telling you not to expect anything romantic to happen. If that is the kind of relationship you want then that is what he is offering. Nothing more than that.
