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why is my best friend becoming distant?

I have noticed that my best friend (lets call her sara) has left me out!? A couple days ago I was with a group of friends (sara, 3 other friends, and I) and we were walking in the hallway to class. Two of my friends (lets call them holly and thym) come up to me and start talking to me. Behind us is sara and another of our friends (lets call her jadi) are talking. They catch up to holly, thym, and I and all of sudden sara starts pushing me behind them. Then I end up walking alone while all four of them are walking in a group. Today, sara came up to me at our lunch table where we usually sit (just sara and I) and she looks back where our other friends sit. She told me she wanted to sit there and she then got up and said "I'm sitting over there". There was only one seat left since all of the other three sit there. So I was left alone at the table but then one girl came to my table and said that she saw me here alone so she sat with me. I ended up talking to her and she invited me to her table right behind the table sara was sitting at. Since I was so angry at sara I walked right past that table without looking at her and I sat at an angle where I could see sara out of the corner of my eye. Almost every 5 minutes I saw her look at me and the next class I ignored her and so did she. I talked to the other girl that invited me at her table and sara hung out with the others.

I feel so left out and confused. Why did she leave me? Is she trying to tell me that our friendship is over?

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  • 6 years ago
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    I have/had that same thing happen to me:/ the best thing you could do is find a new group of friends because if your other three friends don't find some kind of way to make you sit with them they aren't worth it. Find new friends that will accept you for who you are. That's what I did:)

    Source(s): Me :D
  • Anonymous
    6 years ago

    Sometimes people just get in random "moods" when they are annoyed by a particular reason for a non declarative reason. Meaning, theyre annoyed but they just can't explain why. I've been treated this way and i have to admit, I can get that way too. Its a horrible thing, but I get irritated very easily. It could be something as little as the way you chew your ffood or how you speak & ill just get annoyed. Not to the point where I'd abandon someone at the lunch table though! That's just very mean on her part.

    Her behavior is not dismissible, totally not, but that could be why. I say you act like you're not bothered. She may come out if her mood and you don't want to make it seem like you're chasing after her, because that could aggravate her more. But if you want to ask her about it, I understand.

  • 6 years ago

    fsad

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