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How do you get over a heartbreak?

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  • Anonymous
    6 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    It's an ingredient called..time Jeremy..finding the things that bring a serenity to you,the things that will bring a smile to your face,genuinely..there is no miracle cure..but the miracle of time..and knowing inside yourself really knowing..that a person who really loved you..simply would never be the cause of a broken heart..those who hurt you in life have issues themselves they need to work on,which does not give the card blanch to hurt others either,they are a lesson to you,find the what within it that was yours,for in that

    understanding,trust Jeremy..you will find the peace within it,that you need and seek.~*

  • Keith
    Lv 7
    6 years ago

    Just see what it really was about--and the fact that your heart was broken--means they did not deserve your goodness in the first place.

    A lot of times a heart-broken person is the one who was the Giver and the other the Taker--since the heart broken person--has obviously invested a lot into this relationship--the source of the heartbreak in the first place.

    Seeing this for what it is or was--and since there is always a chance for this in a lot of human relationships--and no fault of ours--because we hardly find the right one--and sometimes we have to go through this inescapable flaw of human beings to not be on equal investments mutually--as far as relationships go--the person who goes through what you are--is reflective of the greater investment.

    Do not blame yourself, move on slowly and surely, learn from this experience and forgive the heart-breaker--

    Time will heal the rest--and a new person--eventually will help--in due time--you would use this other one--to tread carefully--so that there is no repeat--by guarding your heart--when in new venture--room is left for disappointment--and that room may not necessarily have to be used--because the right one may have come along- the room being insurance for heart-break.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    6 years ago

    Let your friends help you. Go places with them.Keep busy. Be open to meeting new people.

    Don't sit around thinking ( if only and what if ). Give yourself a couple of days to adjust to her being gone and then move on. Time will help.

  • Anonymous
    6 years ago

    time, mainly. to let yourself heal. you think you're never gonna get over it, but you do. in time. take time to grieve, as it's a loss, stay in bed longer than you normally do, eat comfort food, cry until you can't anymore, exercise, do some retail therapy, hang out with friends when you're ready, you will see there's more fish in the sea, and more to life than that one person.

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